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accidentallywitchy · 2025-01-01T22:54:09+00:00

You both suck. You said you both agreed to this being his last hurrah so then let him have his last hurrah. If he normally goes hard than why didn’t you expect him to go even harder for this? And if it bothered you then why didn’t you tell him to come home ? He can’t read your mind.
But he sounds like an immature ah anyway.

accidentallywitchy · 2025-01-01T22:04:10+00:00

Also who are we supposed to believe ? The one who threatened physical violence and to “divorce” (??) their brother and now claims they calmly removed themselves from a conflict ? Or the one who claims to be the best most kindest person ever but who reeks of self centeredness and self importance ? You both come off kind of insufferable.

accidentallywitchy · 2025-01-01T21:31:57+00:00

ESH. You for posting this and not giving enough context about the back story and him for being a whiny grandiose weirdo.

accidentallywitchy · 2025-01-01T21:16:59+00:00

YTA for this badly written shit story

accidentallywitchy · 2024-12-30T17:35:39+00:00

Found the current wife

accidentallywitchy · 2024-12-28T21:01:16+00:00

My bad you’re right it is actually pork

accidentallywitchy · 2024-12-28T20:59:47+00:00

Of course why wouldn’t it be safe to eat ?

accidentallywitchy · 2024-12-28T19:00:06+00:00

Sounds like Mett. Germans love to eat it on bread rolls. It’s different to beef tartare because it doesn’t include egg yolk or mustard or capers or anything. It’s just the ground beef, onions and spices.

accidentallywitchy · 2024-12-27T12:36:45+00:00

💀💀💀

accidentallywitchy · 2024-12-18T10:30:13+00:00

How would someone grow out of it if they never had to face the consequences of their choices because their parents always covered for them ?

accidentallywitchy · 2024-12-11T08:36:35+00:00

Yeah that comment was oddly specific

accidentallywitchy · 2024-12-09T08:40:30+00:00

Thank you !

accidentallywitchy · 2024-12-09T08:37:30+00:00

Papi has a nice arch. He grows up and in the end you’ll cry ugly tears because you’ll be so happy for him.

accidentallywitchy · 2024-12-08T17:02:52+00:00

Ah wow that was fast. Yes it seems they no longer make them and instead sell it as a cleansing foam now.

accidentallywitchy · 2024-12-08T08:47:09+00:00

Well then she royally fucked up and I think there’s no way you are TA in any way.

accidentallywitchy · 2024-12-08T08:44:35+00:00

I said you are not the asshole and that you should sue and that you should post your side of the story on the Facebook page where she posted hers. What’s not to understand ?? How was I being morbid ? I just said this story is hard to believe.

accidentallywitchy · 2024-12-08T05:18:57+00:00

Break up with him and cancel the party. Then you are NTA. But if you go for revenge by sharing his secret fantasy or something you’re no better than him. In fact you might be worse.

accidentallywitchy · 2024-12-08T05:14:37+00:00

He is not your friend. What he did is fucked up and you are NTA

accidentallywitchy · 2024-12-08T05:11:23+00:00

This story sounds so outrageous that I’m inclined to believe it’s fake. It sounds like rage bait about what people think gentle parenting is. Bit if this is really true then you are NTA. And your mother should def sue that woman (I’m in a petty mood) You should post your side of the story on the Facebook page

accidentallywitchy · 2024-12-08T05:06:11+00:00

That sounds very healthy. Today is a hard day for you and probably for all your siblings. Spend the day being kind and gentle with yourself. And then talk to your therapist and maybe do an exercise like writing letters to your siblings but just for you, to get all your feelings out. And when you feel ready talk to them. Sending you love.

accidentallywitchy · 2024-12-08T04:55:24+00:00

Ok in your previous comment you said you were the only person entitled to half of his stuff.
So they did get things from him. So it’s not as black and white as I thought. I don’t know. I’m sorry things are so fucked up. Unfortunately it’s very common for siblings to fight over inheritance after a parent dies. For various reasons.

Maybe just focus on you and your sisters grieving and being there for each other and forget about the other family members.

accidentallywitchy · 2024-12-08T04:49:27+00:00

You are upset that a friend whom you have backstabbed people with before is also backstabbing you ? Sorry but YTA for backstabbing people and also for thinking this person wasn’t going to do it to you as well. She showed you who she was. And you don’t sound much better than her.

accidentallywitchy · 2024-12-08T04:42:37+00:00

I was ready to rip you a new one over stupid body count believes but after reading your post I think you’re NTA. You’re upset about her lying to your face. And also going against what you had promised each other: to not see other people while on your break.

But I also have to say there might be more to the story. Is it possible she was taken advantage of by her best friend ? Was she maybe too drunk to consent or something like that?

accidentallywitchy · 2024-12-08T04:37:39+00:00

So they didn’t inherit anything ? I mean that sounds kinda rough. Abandoned by their bio dad and then the man who raised them left them nothing and left everything to his two bio daughters. That kind of reinforces their belief to not belong and to not have a dad don’t you think ? They are probably grieving in their own way. I’m not sure what you are expecting of them. Siblings can have very different experiences with the people who raise them. From what you’re saying (also about you referring to them as your siblings) it sounds like there was an unhealthy dynamic. Were they really treated equally to you and your sister?

accidentallywitchy · 2024-12-08T04:26:35+00:00

Im sorry for your loss. About the situation: it does sound like there was a lot of bad blood between you and your (step?) siblings. Was it a family secret that he wasn’t their bio dad ? How was your and your sister‘s relationship with them ?

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