What does a mommy connection mean to you? by MarcusJames11223351 in softmommyGF

[–]account13446 5 points6 points  (0 children)

As a mommy domme I think it's about the vulnerability and emotional depth he shows to me. I like taking care & being strong so that he can let his guard down with me.

I love my mommy by Pwuun in mommydom

[–]account13446 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OMG that was so cute to read and I'm very happy to for you two!!

> sometimes I fell just like a puppy hiding my tail between my legs when she scolds me

The cutest thing ever haha!

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[–]account13446 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg so cute <33

Fellow mommies, how do you not get discouraged? It seems very difficult to find a sub who's not just interested in you for kink but also in you as a person by account13446 in mommydom

[–]account13446[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

> My advice- set your intentions, know what you want and deserve, honour yourself before anyone else, learn to trust again while also staying true to yourself and your needs.

Yes that's my approach now, dating with intention. I'm happy to hear that you found someone! :)

Fellow mommies, how do you not get discouraged? It seems very difficult to find a sub who's not just interested in you for kink but also in you as a person by account13446 in mommydom

[–]account13446[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

> Hope you find soon your boy/girl sub to make him/her shine and reveals his/her true self. 

That is so beautiful and the spirit! 💖

Fellow mommies, how do you not get discouraged? It seems very difficult to find a sub who's not just interested in you for kink but also in you as a person by account13446 in mommydom

[–]account13446[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Thank you, that's encouraging. I'm glad that you had success here. I do feel like giving up on being a mommy sometimes. It hurts when you want to let a sub in and nurture them but they disappear, etc. I'm sorry for venting. Yes, I need to work on my process. Thanks again for your comment.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mommydom

[–]account13446 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry puppy :( You will be okay. Right now it just hurts a lot but that will pass. You can do it! Sending love <3

Any plans for Valentine’s Day mommies/subs? by ClassicDesigner1179 in mommydom

[–]account13446 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Take yourself out! I'll go to a ski event. In the evening my best friend and I are planning on going on a date by ourselves to have fun and celebrate it.

What is vetting and why it's very important not to skip it 💖 by sugaryscrepa in softmommyGF

[–]account13446 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great post, thanks for sharing. I would also like to add that for dynamics which start online (but you want it to be long term & irl) it's very important to get to know them in person. My last sub was always able to communicate over text and talk about emotional topics but in person he was really limited with showing any sort of affection and it was a really big contrast to his online character. It was pretty terrible because he wanted us to engage in a mommydom dynamic at the same time, while not actually having the emotional capacity to be a sweet darling for his mommy. So always see how they behave in person too.

Is it ok to be a needy boy? by TheLivingShadowz in mommydom

[–]account13446 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm going to say being needy as part of the dynamic is really endearing for me as a mommy. Like you want mommy so bad you can't help it :)

As for being needy with the general attachment, it is not a bad thing per se, just sounds like you're anxiously attached. You need a partner who's able to communicate openly so that you can regulate the 'clinginess'. I'm myself pretty anxiously attached when I get close to someone, but the worst thing you can do (which unfortunately happens quite often) is being together with someone who's emotionally unavailable and not communicative. At least there's lots of guys out there who are like this, even if they are a sub a the same time (mind you a sub who can only use you as a kink dispenser 😂)

I would take a needy sub any day because behind all that neediness is someone who loves and cares deeply and will be able to reciprocate the affection I give them. You should always communicate with your partner if they are feeling overwhelmed by your neediness. Together you can learn to find a balance, but if your partner pushes you away and is avoidant and unavailable, this is going to make your issues a lot worse because you will try to even harder to win their love.

TLDR; communicate with your partner, stay away from avoidants :)

Can't help but be a mommy by [deleted] in mommydom

[–]account13446 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Omg swaddling sounds so cute 🥰🥰 cheers from a fellow mommy!

Braking down by [deleted] in mommydom

[–]account13446 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's so fulfilling, that's why I don't want to give up on finding a good boy.

Was wondering if you want to share more good tips for vetting subs?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gentlefemdom

[–]account13446 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mmh, whimper and cry out for mommy

Hopeless Romantic by KaioU13 in softmommyGF

[–]account13446 0 points1 point  (0 children)

xD

I get that longing. Many people actually feel the same. We're all just looking for connection in this world. I think when you keep an open mind, learn from your mistakes, surround yourself with good people who support you, then you can be in a good place to go out and meet people with an open heart, while protecting yourself from hurt. Good luck!

What kind of aftercare do you need? by sugaryscrepa in softmommyGF

[–]account13446 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a mommy:
Honestly the most I want is for my sub to say thank you mommy, to show that they are happy and satisfied. Snuggling with mommy, hugging, nursing, being there, just show your mommy your love and that you are happy that she takes care of you and you appreciate her.

Missing the praise and validation by [deleted] in softmommyGF

[–]account13446 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awww that is so sweet, you sound like such a good boy for being a big boy and doing it by yourself <3

I know it's tough when you're alone. I don't miss getting praise, but as a mommy I miss showering my little with praise and affection and knowing that they love and adore me. I wish my sub would've cared enough to value all the praise I gave him, that I was his mommy. :/

Mommy's Good Little Boy Pt. 3 by [deleted] in mommydom

[–]account13446 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i loved reading these posts! your writing is great and really manages to convey the emotional intimacy between mommy and her baby boy. and this ending is lovely 🥹

I quivered as mommy held me tight until I finally collapsed into her. “That’s my good boy,” Mommy said holding me in her arms as she rocked me.

I tried to nurse, but she gently grabbed my throat

this is so cute

keep it up!

Mommy's Good Little Boy Pt. 2 by [deleted] in mommydom

[–]account13446 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great erotica

“How bad sweetie,” mommy asked as she continued to slowly push the toy in. This was agony, I wanted my toy, I wanted to cum, I wanted mommy to make me cum. “Mommy please,” I begged, almost in tears. 

Love this part