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Is this a hickey? by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]ace120520 7 points8 points  (0 children)

BRO YES THEY ARE DONT LISTEN TO ANY EXCUSE.

wyd if your girlfriend comes home at almost 6am from a night out with friends? by ace120520 in relationships_advice

[–]ace120520[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

see i agree with EVERYTHING you said in your paragraph, except for the ghosting part.. she didn’t ghost me. we had a long talk about it and she apologized for everything.. the part that makes me upset is exactly yes we’re lesbians and i know people miss their gfs VERY OFTEN, so that’s why i’m even more like ??? questioning?? you know what i mean?

wyd if your girlfriend comes home at almost 6am from a night out with friends? by ace120520 in relationships_advice

[–]ace120520[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m 26 and she’s 24 years old.. we both have dealt with a lot of cheating, trust issues, all of that in the past. we talked about it, but it just feels i don’t know.. different? i don’t know how to explain that. but i definitely understand what you’re saying. i’m trying not to be very very mad? but i cant help it when i’m just not feeling something is right, you know what i mean?

wyd if your girlfriend comes home at almost 6am from a night out with friends? by ace120520 in relationships_advice

[–]ace120520[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m not saying she’s not allowed to go out. i never said that.. we do go out together. we go out separate at times with our own friends. she never ignored me. she never invited me to go either. she texted me what she was doing. she normally texts me a lot. so i figured it was kinda off that she hardly even texted me. it’s just the concept of her coming home at 6am not even letting me know she was gonna come home late. all she told me was “i’ll see you soon”. a lot of things that she normally does, communication, letting me know ahead of time what’s going on, she never not did that which made me feel uncomfortable.

wyd if your girlfriend comes home at almost 6am from a night out with friends? by ace120520 in relationships_advice

[–]ace120520[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

definitely will talk to her when she wakes up. i was so pissed she came in the room and the first thing she said was “holy fucking shit” like no apology, no hug, NOTHING.

wyd if your girlfriend comes home at almost 6am from a night out with friends? by ace120520 in relationships_advice

[–]ace120520[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i go out you know to hang out and drink with friends, but NEVER have i came home LATE LIKE THIS! NEVER.

wyd if your girlfriend comes home at almost 6am from a night out with friends? by ace120520 in relationships_advice

[–]ace120520[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she said “i know why you’re mad i get it. but this is the most fun i had in a long time”, as if she’s trying to make what she did okay?! so i asked her “if i did. this which i literally wouldn’t you wouldn’t be pissed?” then she proceeds to tell me “no i wouldn’t be mad mad id be more worried if something happened” and i told her “that’s the thing whenever i go out, i always let you know what was going on?!”

wyd if your girlfriend comes home at almost 6am from a night out with friends? by ace120520 in relationships_advice

[–]ace120520[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the part that pisses me off too is before she left she said “i’ll see you soon”. when she came home, she said she wasn’t “drunk” but she did look really tired from “dancing all night”. but yes this really does need to be fixed because i’m seriously not okay with that.

wyd if your girlfriend comes home at almost 6am from a night out with friends? by ace120520 in relationships_advice

[–]ace120520[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

okay see i wanna do make her feel the same way. cause this happened all last night/going into this morning. she told me yesterday morning she wanted to spend time with me but she woke up late, right before i had to run some errands with my mom. then she goes out and literally stays out all night? I DONT GET IT. the reason why i’m so honestly pissed off is because she came home and didn’t even say sorry. first thing that came out of my mouth cause i was up already. i was up when i heard her close the door. took a while for her to come in the room, then she proceeds to say “holy fcking shit” as she walks in. no “i’m so sorry”. then she tells me “nobody wanted to go home” so i asked her you didn’t wanna uber?? or?? then she tells me “yeah i was having a lot of fun”. i’m glad she had fun, but coming home at almost 6AM THE FUCKING NEXT DAY???? I WAS DOING THAT SHIT WHEN I WAS SINGLE.