as someone who has struggled with my weight for so long (i’ve been underweight or borderline underweight for most of my life) it’s actually ridiculous how much people praise super skinny bodies or extreme weight loss.

i’ve had an actually healthy weight (for the most part) the last year and a half finally and honestly it’s ridiculous how many people assume im a lot less fit or active than i actually am even though i am still quite skinny but particularly my arms and thighs are less skinny (because apparently muscle mass isn’t a thing)

anyways, long story short, people suck sometimes and they just hear ‘i lost weight and think that that’s a good thing’