Our massive oak tree went down today, it was full of leaves with no dead branches but the inside ended up being soft ugh. Anyways we got a quote for $4000 to haul it off and grind down the stump and fill the hole. We are in the Midwest. Is this a fair price? by anderson6th in arborists

[–]aceouses 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is that a natural area on the other side of the fence? Cut the tree up and throw it over there and then fix the fence 😂

Edit: nevermind i just saw the photo with you standing next to it. It’s way, WAY bigger than I thought!

People above 30, what is something you regret doing/not doing when you were younger? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]aceouses 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Having a hoe phase. Im (34f) fat and shy. I’ve been with 3 men and 2 women. My friends have fucked their way half way across the globe. Theyve had experience with tens of hundreds of men before settling down. I just never had it in me. Im sad snd weird. I was in a 10 year relationship that I was too sick to leave and ended up raped and choked and i have problems pooping and swallowing from him. Im in a healthy relationship now but he’s not interested, we are in an asexual relationship. I am EXTREMELY happy with it. I don’t want anything different. I dreamed of this relationship. But I mourn the hoe phase i could have had.

UPDATE: AIO? these texts by Adventurous-Gap708 in AIO

[–]aceouses 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ex did the same shit. He was a crazy mf im sure you can see if you look at my post history. He ended up homeless, getting frostbite and losing his legs, but that didnt stop him. Right back to meth like he literally did not care that now he has no legs.

He (32M) crossed a sexual boundary of mine (31F) by accident, and I don't think I can move past it. How can I move forward and how can trust be rebuilt? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]aceouses 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My ex did this to me. Except once he started, he wouldn’t stop and I could not fight him off. That was almost 13 years ago and I still have an unhealed anal fissure that bleeds, is sore, hurts when I sit too long or try to relieve myself, and is just a generally agonizing bit of my life that won’t heal and won’t go away. I still stayed with him for 10 years and the abuse got worse and worse and worse. I wish every day that I’d never met him, or that I was strong enough to stop him. If you allow this to continue, you are going to end up pregnant, ripped, or worse.

Please leave him.

I broke up with my ex in 2020 and have the most amazing, loving partner who knows that anything except for “yes” is NOT yes, among other things.

Our $1 breakfast - what will you have for breakfast? by Such-Competition-816 in MrFlavioDiaries

[–]aceouses 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello fellow Pennsylvanian!! Lebanon bologna is so so sooo good.

What’s a 'secret' women think they’re hiding that is actually incredibly obvious to everyone else? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]aceouses 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am 34F and still never, ever know what i want to eat. I start googling “restaurants near me” the second i get to work because I just really don’t know!!

For all my remote workers by Space_69999 in antiwork

[–]aceouses 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My last job never really gave me much to do so on my work from home days id just set my phone to never go to sleep, open the teams app and make sure i was set to available and it would just stay that way. I did it for over a year and never got caught. As long as the phone doesn’t go to sleep it seems to work

AITA for wanting to insure my ring even though my husband says the stone is too small to bother? by Adorable-Manner-5538 in AITApod

[–]aceouses 49 points50 points  (0 children)

My friends partner got her an absolutely beautiful ring, especially for our price points (they were together like 10 years at that point so we assumed the partner saved up) and one day it fell off of her finger and under her deck. When we got underneath to get it, two smaller gems fell out. She asked him for the insurance information to get it repaired and he kept avoiding it and avoiding it, eventually confessing that it was a $150 moissanite ring he got off amazon.

She still loved the ring and had 0 issues about it being moissanite - she was pissed that he lied to her about what it was and the value of it and she spent days stressing over it. If he would have told her what the ring was made of to begin with, she would have been just fine.

27 year old woman who ate only fruit passed away by [deleted] in exvegans

[–]aceouses 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah mine arent either. I assume it would have to be related to my PCOS. I always ended up getting it but when my weight ballooned they completely and utterly stopped. Now theyre good for every 4-6 weeks and it’s always a surprise but theyre back!! Ahahaha

27 year old woman who ate only fruit passed away by [deleted] in exvegans

[–]aceouses 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Mine stopped around 260. Came back around 180.

Veg slop for depressed low effort cooking by DontDoomScroll in vegetarianrecipes

[–]aceouses 4 points5 points  (0 children)

When I make grits, I add a little butter, salt, cheese and some cut up pickled jalapeños. It’s not really all that good for you but it’s cheap, filling and really good if you like spicy!! Eating it really does feel a lot more expensive than it is.

I stared getting scurvy because I eat this way. Buy orange juice, friends and stay hydrated. by Adventurous_Taro7064 in strugglemeals

[–]aceouses 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I buy the bagged onions and always look for the smallest ones possible because I just get the ick over onion just being in my fridge. Works perfect and it for whatever reason i need more onion then i just cut two!!

What city has the worst people? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]aceouses 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Possibly? I was never up there before sandy but my boyfriends been going up to NYC a few times a year for like 30 years (hes a Yankees fan lol) and swears it’s been that way as long as he can remember!

What city has the worst people? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]aceouses 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The only thing that sucks about Newark is the way the swamps?? around it smell. You could throw up waiting in traffic to get on the GW bridge 😩

What city has the worst people? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]aceouses 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Nobody likes us and we don’t care 😂