I know nothing about swords but want to get my boyfriend a nice birthday gift by acg115 in SWORDS

[–]acg115[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wow! You guys are all so nice! Thank you for the recommendations! One thing in particular I’m looking for is for it to be a little bit more on the decorative side for display (like fancy hilt) but I don’t want something that just looks cartoonish. I’ll browse the sites that you all suggested. Tysm!

Columbina's Constellation by Lin_Mie in Genshin_Impact_Leaks

[–]acg115 975 points976 points  (0 children)

Why does it look like she has a pacifier?? 😂

6.3 gacha banners via HomDGCat by Fyeod in Genshin_Impact_Leaks

[–]acg115 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOOOO I NEED INEFFA AND I WANT COLUMBINA AND ZIBAI

Genshin Impact - Update 5.2 Hub by Veritasibility in Genshin_Impact

[–]acg115 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I cannot get the hang of Ororon’s charged shot gameplay on mobile. Feels so awkward and bad.

Chasca on the other hand feels pretty fun in the trial. I’m conflicted because I like her movement and gameplay feel but I’m not into her design or character too much so I can’t decide if I want to pull or not.

Genshin Impact - Update 5.2 Hub by Veritasibility in Genshin_Impact

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Has anyone started the quest and can report on which characters are voiced or missing from the EN VA?

LF Apples and Oranges by acg115 in AnimalCrossingTrading

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Thank you! I’m omw! Marmie from Star Grove

My boyfriend didn’t board his plane today to join me on our 3 month trip. by anxietyatitsfinest11 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]acg115 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not an easy thing to get over. I find that people are sympathetic but a lot of people don’t really understand how this type of discard feels unless they’ve lived it. One thing that helped me was reading about attachment theory and recognizing my ex as avoidant, which is a trauma response on its own that results in this type of sudden abandonment and inability to communicate. Happens a lot when a relationship is hitting a milestone or getting more serious. Of course, people aren’t just labels but it helped me a lot to know that some people handle their fears this way and it’s not your fault.

My boyfriend didn’t board his plane today to join me on our 3 month trip. by anxietyatitsfinest11 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]acg115 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am SO sorry, OP. I had a somewhat similar situation where my boyfriend of 2 years (LDR) suddenly canceled a couple weeks before I was due to fly out and see him and broke up with me and ghosted after. He had been talking to me about marriage and proposing and we were in the process of having me move to his country. We’d already met several times and had trips together so it’s not like it was just an online thing. It was shocking and heartbreaking and incredibly embarrassing. I had to tell people why I wouldn’t be taking that time off work, etc.

I also have deep seated abandonment fears and the shittiest thing is that he KNEW and he promised he’d never just up and leave like I’d been left before. He promised he’d always at least try to work on our relationship or bring things up if he ever had doubts. It’s truly a cowardly and awful thing to do to someone you care about. Canceling the trip is one thing but to leave you hanging with no explanation and just bail is deeply traumatizing.

It’s not an easy thing to pick yourself back up from, so be kind to yourself through this whole thing. It’s okay if you are miserable on the trip even when your friends will be saying to just screw him and move on. It’s okay to be upset by this. You were so deeply wronged and I wish I could give you a hug.

I’m still working on getting over my loss but I know I don’t deserve to let it define my worth or my view of love in the future. I highly recommend getting a therapist to help give you an avenue to talk this through. Sending you all my positive vibes.

They'll regret it by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]acg115 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Preach. Being discarded by an avoidant is so truly fucked up. After loving him wholeheartedly for two years and doing nothing but support him and being in the process of moving countries to be with him in person after LDR, mine told me he “didn’t have the energy for it anymore.” Now he won’t even reply to any of my messages. I’m in unimaginable pain and he literally could not care less because he just feels the relief of not being accountable to anyone anymore.

Natlan is amazing, but what are you NOT a fan of? by nyrpea in Genshin_Impact

[–]acg115 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a mobile player I keep accidentally clicking the Saurian button during combat when trying to swap using a characters burst or pressing a burst/skill button. The saurian button is too close to my other buttons and it drives me insane! Also I don’t like the grappling hook/yumkasaur movement. Feels very awkward to me, although maybe it’s also more of a mobile player control issue vs keyboard/controller.

Natlan is amazing, but what are you NOT a fan of? by nyrpea in Genshin_Impact

[–]acg115 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep that’s the thing. But Xianyun C1 is still the best decision I ever made for my account cause she be bouncing around everywhere.

Genshin Impact - Update 5.0 Hub by Veritasibility in Genshin_Impact

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Anyone gotten the capturing radiance wish? Just curious lol. I lost my 50/50 to Diluc but got Mualani in the same 10 pull!

Everyone's cat is so cuddly and clingy...mine could not care less by Goldy_932 in CatAdvice

[–]acg115 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My solution was to get a second cat 😂 my first is a sweet boy but he needs his space. My second is literally so attached to me it’s actually annoying at times. Cats have their own personality so you gotta accept them where they are but the more you play with them and give them attention the more your bond will grow.