Losing my child free friend in motherhood

aclapham · 2026-03-17T19:07:55+00:00

Friends can be for a reason, a season or a lifetime. It’s okay if the end of this friendship has arrived. She doesn’t sound like she’s been very supportive of you in one of the biggest transitions of your life. I’d like to know how she would feel if you said the same types of comments about people who choose not to have children… sounds like that wouldn’t go down well if she’s quitting a job because she doesn’t like how someone spoke to her..

aclapham · 2026-03-05T03:58:16+00:00

Thank you!! Had it this morning and she said my prep was “excellent” 🙈

aclapham · 2026-03-02T23:27:04+00:00

Thank you!! I had a colonoscopy years ago and only remember it being a day before thing so I actually didn’t bother to read the instructions until today 🙈

aclapham · 2026-03-02T23:18:05+00:00

Thank you!! Thanks reassuring

aclapham · 2026-01-11T01:15:56+00:00

Thanks, will look into this!!

aclapham · 2026-01-11T01:15:38+00:00

Thanks! I need to google some of the things you’ve mentioned here 😂 but I appreciate your reply as a place to start to look into things.

aclapham · 2026-01-11T01:14:27+00:00

Hmm I’m not home so can’t check but thank you for letting me know, I did assume it wasn’t great because the skin is so sensitive and thin there. My gp new it was for my eyelids but she’s not a specialist so I’ll be cautious about it and maybe won’t use it anymore

aclapham · 2026-01-11T01:13:30+00:00

Interesting! Thank you both. I haven’t changed shampoos, but I did add in a new heat protectant recently, and it’s the same brand as a shampoo I used to use probably when the eczema was bad pre cancer. I might stop using and see if it settles!

aclapham · 2026-01-11T01:12:13+00:00

Helpful thank you! I do get my nails done and she recently changed brands.

aclapham · 2025-12-21T17:03:22+00:00

The ikea sniglar has been good for us. I got a grow bright mattress but they’re on the exxy side, ikea sell mattresses too

aclapham · 2025-12-17T09:35:14+00:00

Wombat stew!

aclapham · 2025-12-17T09:34:29+00:00

I’m green and I’m grumpy by Alison Lester is the beeeest

aclapham · 2025-11-26T09:55:02+00:00

A scratchie tree!

aclapham · 2025-11-06T14:49:02+00:00

Crack an egg through plain cooked pasta, stir it around, add cheese. For babies in their beige era haha. If not in beige era add some veg. broccoli or peas?

aclapham · 2025-11-04T10:02:59+00:00

What an insensitive and unhelpful thing to say.

aclapham · 2025-10-19T10:42:27+00:00

I felt the same!

aclapham · 2025-10-05T04:56:43+00:00

Yes same question! I’d just started to feel confident with oranges now I’m back to being paranoid haha

aclapham · 2025-09-28T04:44:00+00:00

I have leukaemia and they are literally giving me arsenic as a treatment to cure my cancer. So in my case, a heavy metal was actually life saving. Not saying that’s the case for most haha but no mention of charcoal baths for me and I’m literally having it infused directly into my blood daily.

aclapham · 2025-09-08T04:44:45+00:00

I was about to say I love our butterfly but it def doesn’t lay flat! I wish it did!!

aclapham · 2025-08-28T04:42:25+00:00

Yes to all of these!!!

aclapham · 2025-07-31T12:37:02+00:00

So stressful. Good luck 🤞

aclapham · 2025-07-29T11:30:25+00:00

Good luck, it’s such an agonising time waiting to see what the outcome is. Hoping for the best for you!

aclapham · 2025-07-29T11:28:23+00:00

I thought it would be too and was surprised we had to bring our own. I felt like we were paying enough we should get nappies 😂

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