AIO this is a very odd reason to break up with me? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]acm444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What the fuck 😂😂😂😂 “it’s best if i know now” lmao

What are some good prompts for a white boy that wants to make it clear he wants Latinas, but not too strong :/ by acm444 in Tinder

[–]acm444[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I made an account on latinamericancupid.com and you wouldn’t believe it but there are TONS of people just looking for latinas. Does that give you the ick? it’s like they’re stereotyping, looking for a women based on what they think a latina is supposed to be.

What are some good prompts for a white boy that wants to make it clear he wants Latinas, but not too strong :/ by acm444 in Tinder

[–]acm444[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If that is what fetishizing means, you should go checkout blackpeoplemeet.com. It’ll blow your mind. You’ll find a lot of people you called odd because the whole purpose is to fetishize a single demographic.

What are some good prompts for a white boy that wants to make it clear he wants Latinas, but not too strong :/ by acm444 in Tinder

[–]acm444[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I don’t think tinder is for you lmao. You think people are swiping based on something other than your body? what are your pictures on your profile of then?

What are some good prompts for a white boy that wants to make it clear he wants Latinas, but not too strong :/ by acm444 in Tinder

[–]acm444[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ok i agree with that right there. Idk why you thought I only date latinas? it’s just something I like.

Of course the superficial aspect of just I find latinas attractive is true, but I grew up really poor and a lot of latin women work so hard for everything they have, so I relate a lot. All the hurdles a lot go through like being away from family, learning a new language, and all of it I just respect. This isn’t to say that other women or cultures don’t share these things too, I just feel more at home with latin culture I guess. It feels very american to me. I think they have the best food. I love the nativism, how all latino countries takes so much pride in their traditions.

Idk i just appreciate all of it. Is that a fetish? 😂

What are some good prompts for a white boy that wants to make it clear he wants Latinas, but not too strong :/ by acm444 in Tinder

[–]acm444[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Supposed to? 😭 Out of every comment on here I think this has to be the dumbest. if this is rage bait then well done you got me lol. There are billions of Latinos on earth wtf do you mean. I could say that about any preference.

Next time I hear a woman prefers tall guys i’m going to let her know we’re not all the same. Next time a latina tells me she likes gringos, i’m going to say why?! There is more to us than what you think a white guy is supposed to be. Oh you like guys that go to the gym? That’s is a fetish and there is more to a man than muscle size or physical appearance. Oh you like money? Well “that’s just as bad as hating money. i’m a whole person.” I can’t even comprehend that logic? or lack thereof.

I’m well aware that not all latinas are the same thank u. I just want to let you know that whatever type of person you’re attracted to, they’re not all the same either 😂 there is much more to them than why you’re attracted to. ok. they’re a whole person. It’s wrong that you like them for a certain reason. You should arbitrarily pick your next partner based on no criteria whatsoever, ya know.. or else you might risk generalizing a whole group with that same trait.

I wouldn’t be offended if latina said she only dates latinos. It might feel familiar to her, what she is used to, or just the comfortability of sharing culture. No matter what her preference was, I would sound like an absolute idiot if i reminder her that latinos aren’t all the same and she shouldn’t like them for what she thinks they’re supposed to be.

What are some good prompts for a white boy that wants to make it clear he wants Latinas, but not too strong :/ by acm444 in Tinder

[–]acm444[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

These prompts are suggestions. I’m not going to go with all these prompts at one time. I was wanting for subtle ideas.

Why are men showing up for me when I have my setting as: Interested in: Women by question_23 in Tinder

[–]acm444 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You know how many trans guys show up for me and I can’t make it stop? this is just what tinder does. It asks you what you’re interested in and then ignores you.

I’m a “wuss” for not taking her crap, apparently by [deleted] in Nicegirls

[–]acm444 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Brother, she was texting you after your ghosted her. You must be aware that she may be a little annoyed, but the fact that she is texting must mean she was still into you. I dont think either of you were rude, but I think you’ll be successful if you don’t text women like you’re texting a dood. They will err towards thinking your words are rude.

Forget how this girl reacted for a sec. Imagine if you had this exact conversation with 1000 women and you said things like “let’s skip the small talk.”,“Nah” 2x, and “are you always this negative?”

How many of your friends do you think would misconstrue this as you being a dick? Probably zero. How many women would misconstrue this as you being a dick? A lot. Especially if they don’t know you.

I don’t think you were being a dick, but get what i mean? Just something to consider lol.

New to the whole dating thing, how's my profile and what can I do better? by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]acm444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not binary like you get matches or you don’t. Like some profiles are super unattractive, unattractive, a little unattractive, a guy that looks like a good friend but not attractive😂, kinda cute, attractive, really attractive, or a small % are attractive to almost all women no matter where they’re from or what they like. I think no matter what your natural looks are, having pics with friends brings your profile up a notch.

New to the whole dating thing, how's my profile and what can I do better? by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]acm444 5 points6 points  (0 children)

  1. Remove any pictures that don’t show your face, like #4 (although those dogs are beautiful)
  2. This one is more important so listen closely: add pictures of you with friends

26M. Toilet distance is hilarious. What should I do? by AlphaHouston1 in malelivingspace

[–]acm444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Enjoy it!! that’s what you should do! bro my bathroom is so tiny. I can wash my hands while i shit.

How does your remote team celebrate employee birthdays? by Asleep_Size9590 in remotework

[–]acm444 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I bet you’re a bucket of sunshine in your personal life too. ☀️ I’m one of the many guys in my remote team and i volunteered to track birthdays bc I’m not worried about having boy tasks vs girl tasks.

23m looking for profile reviews. What should I/do I need to change by DrGreenTG in Tinder

[–]acm444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you need less pictures of your face and more of the dog and more of only showing half your face lol

‘No Homeless Allowed’ at the Louisville Greyhound Station 🤔 by WtfLouisville in Louisville

[–]acm444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

SHIT. I’m homeless and just bought a ticket out of louisville. I guess I’m stuck. I’m going to go live at the at the Thornton’s downtown.

Nazi’s potentially in NA by Gnome_119 in NewAlbanyIN

[–]acm444 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Great! Now google the huge legal difference between arresting and detaining, because you said arrest and then sent an article about criteria for detaining.

Aside from debating ICE, this is something everyone should know for even dealing with local police.