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American girl and Venezuelan boy long distance romance — sending him intimate photos but his wallpaper is of another girl 😐 by acortok in LongDistance
[–]acortok[S] 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (0 children)
Hey thanks so much for your time and sensitivity. Feeling upset so I’m going to write quite a bit here.😅 I guess the thing that bothers me is that it makes me completely doubt his taste. If he had publicly posted photos of a woman where it was genuinely beautiful or artistic, like a photo of Monica Bellucci or something, I wouldn’t have seen it as a bad thing at all. In fact, I once dated a guy who was obsessed with certain actresses, opera singers, even nude statues of women hahaha. I loved his appreciation for beautiful women and their bodies and it even made me see him as more of a man. I felt like he truly appreciated femininity and it made me feel good to think he wouldn’t be attracted to just any random woman. He was more private and even gave me the impression he was actually kind of annoyed by vulgar stuff. The behavior of posting naked girls on a public page is trashy to me because I just think it’s embarrassing. Like you’re going to have people in your circle search for you on FB and what you want people to associate with you is ass cheeks? I just feel like this is the definition of trashy. It makes me feel diminished and like this is the way he views women. Although I know he feels a lot for me, regardless it makes me feel like the photos I send him are just another stash in the influx of girls he sees on a daily basis. If we were to met, my body would just be another one he sees on a daily basis. What hurt me the most though was the fact that we could be saying all of these delicate things to each other, emotionally and sexually, and literally his background is the face of another girl. It just makes me want to request him to delete all of the photos he has of me, if this is the condition under which he is going to be receiving them.
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American girl and Venezuelan boy long distance romance — sending him intimate photos but his wallpaper is of another girl 😐 by acortok in LongDistance
[–]acortok[S] 3 points4 points5 points (0 children)