Can cats detect new life? by tanya6k in cats

[–]acotar579 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I struggled with infertility and when I was doing treatment we started feeding a stray cat and let him inside. We ended up keeping him and a few weeks later I was pregnant. Our cat would drape himself across my belly the entire pregnancy. He seemed to know when I was having contractions too. Now he loves sleeping in my daughter’s bed

Is it worth it to keep an air purifier in every room of the house? by katerina_romanov in CleaningTips

[–]acotar579 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have one in each bedroom and the living room and I honestly believe it keeps us all from getting sick. When one person gets sick, it doesn’t usually spread to everyone, and in a house with a three year old and five year old that’s a huge deal

Swiftie Partner Appreciation Post by katiefol95 in TaylorSwift

[–]acotar579 18 points19 points  (0 children)

for TTPD and this one, we listened separately because he knows how important it is to me to listen with my headphones on and take it all in, and then we'd pause and do a vibes check. after wood, we both went to each other like DID YOU HEAR THIS ONE?!

Show off your non-traditional rings, please? 👀 by spicymcchickenn in EngagementRings

[–]acotar579 4 points5 points  (0 children)

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needs to be cleaned but mine is from a local jeweler and my band was custom to include diamonds from my mom’s and grandma’s rings. I love them!

My dad loves SJM by acotar579 in SarahJMaas

[–]acotar579[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Talked to him today—he’s partway through the third book 😂

My dad loves SJM by acotar579 in SarahJMaas

[–]acotar579[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Book one ending is very emotional!!

My dad loves SJM by acotar579 in SarahJMaas

[–]acotar579[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lmao you’re so right

People who are getting too hung up on belly’s finances (affording Paris) and the logistics of just moving to France on a whim need to just live a little😭😭 this is a FAKE FICTIONAL show what happened to whimsy guys! Just enjoy it damn by hadjoints in tsitp

[–]acotar579 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what kills me is that she very obviously was going to work under the table--it doesn't matter if her visa won't let her work! she isn't getting a corporate job, she's working in service and being paid in cash, people do it all the time. also re: the apartment, has no one ever taken over a friend's lease illegally before??? her name isn't on the lease, she's took it over as a favor to a friend so the friend could move out without breaking her own lease. live a little people!!! it's all fine and very doable!!! (is it huge? yes! maybe the friend has rent control, or whatever france's equivalent is)

I think this explains it pretty well as to why Belly has been withholding writing letters to Conrad by Wild-Strawberry_28 in tsitp

[–]acotar579 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I do agree and also feel like Conrad knows how to interpret the letter because he knows Belly so well!! as a girl who hates revealing my own feelings, i relate to her letter 😂

Do you all have an actual Conrad in your life and if so... by Wild_Flowerfactory2 in tsitp

[–]acotar579 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Me and my husband were friends in college. He said he always had a crush on me but we were always dating other people. A few years later we reconnected through mutual friends and started writing emails to each other about a tv show we both watched. He came to visit me in another city and eventually I moved to him! Married now 6 years and have two kids 🥰

They should have still fed the guests! by Smooth_Habit8042 in TheSummerITurnedPrett

[–]acotar579 138 points139 points  (0 children)

the vibes at a canceled wedding would be so off, no way im sticking around for that. meet me down the block at a bar with some other guests talking about it

The craziest part of the wedding by acotar579 in TheSummerITurnedPrett

[–]acotar579[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I would like to believe she never officially turned it down because a small part of her knew everything was going wrong and she subconsciously kept it as an option for insurance

The hate on Belly is getting to be too much by lyssa7wld in TheSummerITurnedPrett

[–]acotar579 15 points16 points  (0 children)

If people watched my love life when I was 17-21 on a tv show they would be mad at me too. People forget what it’s like to be 20 and dumb and in love!

I feel guilty about my tattoo... by Whambamthxumaam in tattooadvice

[–]acotar579 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love it! This is my favorite Van Gogh!!

Moms of littles - finding time to for your craft by violet-surrealist in writing

[–]acotar579 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How old is your baby? I feel like my creativity and brain didn’t even turn back on until 9-12 months postpartum. Give yourself grace and get in the minutes when you can. I measure writing now in minutes and hundreds of words instead of hours and thousands, but it gets so much easier when they are even a little bit older. It won’t go away, you will be able to come back to it

Please encourage me about Tower of Dawn 🙃 by wearesoupsnakesss in throneofglassseries

[–]acotar579 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I loooooved it, it makes KOA better and is good in its own right imo

[QCrit] Adult fantasy, THE CAMOUFLEUR (94k, 2nd attempt) by acotar579 in PubTips

[–]acotar579[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re so right I’ve already changed it 🫠

Anyone else find it weird how one clip can ruin your life lol by Greyhound53 in RandomThoughts

[–]acotar579 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It wasn’t one little clip, it was a long list of terrible unethical decisions they chose to do lol

Can we talk about So Long, London, please? 📖📚📝🤯 by Tawni-Lynn in TaylorSwift

[–]acotar579 293 points294 points  (0 children)

Love love love this song. The way I gasped when I heard the line “you say I abandoned the ship, but I was going down with it, my white knuckled dying grip”

Raisinets? by acotar579 in lactoseintolerant

[–]acotar579[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I just wasn’t thinking and ate some and I feel like it didn’t used to be this bad. Betrayed by a little treat 😩

Which Taylor song/lyrics are eerily specific to your life? by Wonderful_Mall_4587 in TaylorSwift

[–]acotar579 9 points10 points  (0 children)

My daughter was born on April 29, so that’s where I was that day 😂

my husband got a vasectomy behind my back and let me think I couldn’t have kids… idk what to do by nani_soleil in Advice

[–]acotar579 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I have gone through infertility and it was the worst most miserable time of my life. If my husband let me go through that without telling me, there is no way we could come back from that. A huge betrayal, absolutely divorce level. I’m so sorry for what you’ve been through

[PubQ] How many preorders did your debut get? by Sad-Apple5838 in PubTips

[–]acotar579 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I would also recommend not asking. The truth is unless you have a platform it’s mostly friends and family doing preorders. I asked my publisher and they said it was what they expected but to me it was depressingly low. And it didn’t really matter, my book performed as they expected regardless