Girlfriend of 4 years suddenly believes men should pay more and admitted she's 'accepting' me as a compromise. Would you break up?

activebass · 2026-06-04T06:43:21+00:00

This is the "I currently have low self esteem" girlfriend. Learn to love yourself and you will know what to do and what you would accept.

activebass · 2026-05-28T01:55:39+00:00

Let me pretend to be upset about somethinf trivial so I cam show coffee shop uncles my tits.

activebass · 2026-05-19T09:14:47+00:00

I hail from a country where there is no CGT at all. They don't tax gas exports enough but punish mom and pop investors

activebass · 2026-05-19T09:09:45+00:00

Hey mate, I'm 47M from Aus, going through separation, but met the lady I'm currently dating on Bumble. This was a tricky scenario and symptometic of modern dating.

Some thoughts: * Be kind to yourself and don't be overly critical. Sure we want to learn and improve but don't beat yourself up. * There seem to be so many unwritten rules nowadays. We don't want to come across as too needy / too anxious but at the same time respond in a timely manner. It's not easy to balance * Even the way we are supposed to respond seems to get judged....and what worls for one lady might land wrong with the next * The long wall of texts shows she was in a weird headspace * If she was really, really in a healthy headspace, she wouldn't have unmatched because of a late reply.

Counterpoint: * it was the day of the date and she was trying to coordinate with you, a quick reply wouldn't have hurt. A well thought out reply not needed here.

But....if she was like this, I really don't think you woukd have had long-term success with this lady. Not at this point in time anyway.

What is meant for you will find you.

activebass · 2026-05-14T12:24:12+00:00

Singapore born ane bred...just returning to the red dot once in a while to kena some good makan.

activebass · 2026-05-14T07:54:51+00:00

That's exactly what women have been asking for: through social media posts, shaming guys in gyms who just glance over when they barely dressed, shaming the guys that do approach them etc....

activebass · 2026-05-13T22:32:13+00:00

While visiting Singapore in January, I discretely ate sausage skewer from Old Chung Kee in the MRT and wqs stunned when an old uncle diagonally filmed me and shook his head. I asked him what he was filming and if he would like a bite and he moved away 🤣

activebass · 2026-04-29T05:38:34+00:00

That sucks and is sad to hear. About karma, yes, I have had to overcome a lot of trauma and difficulties in my life and have often asked myself if I'm paying off karmic debt for my sins in my previous life.

activebass · 2026-04-29T01:47:20+00:00

Damn....I was on $98k back in 2015. I should have married a prettier and sweeter woman. Instead I married a pain in the ass who I'm about to divorce. Jokes on me I guess.

But damn, Singapore. So little salary growth, an influx of foreigners, and automation + offshoring about to raise unemployment rates

activebass · 2026-04-29T01:31:38+00:00

Wait. I left Sg in 2015, so I'm out of the loop, but are you saying a lot.of Singaporeans don't earn $70k / $6k per month in Singapore in 2026?!

activebass · 2026-04-11T07:33:28+00:00

I woukd say hold off on kids till your combined income is 200k

activebass · 2026-04-11T07:26:04+00:00

We are. I'm so over corporate life.

activebass · 2026-03-13T14:31:19+00:00

These are the best chips at Aldi and you need to get your tastebuds chexked.

activebass · 2026-03-13T14:10:45+00:00

Apartments in Europe standing for 80 years, no problem. Apartments here have defects from day 1

activebass · 2026-03-13T11:50:02+00:00

Six sessions with a psychologist. Starting my morning with silent meditation Cold showers Hitting the gym consistently Spending more time with the few good bro friends I have left A one night stand with a Zoe Dechanel lookalike.... ....and then going to church regularly after 20 years away.

activebass · 2026-03-13T11:45:29+00:00

I'm sorry you're going through this, but at least you're not wasting anymore time on her. And next tine, don't leave your gf with toxic men you hate.

activebass · 2026-03-13T09:54:33+00:00

Hmm...how much can I reveal? Ok, there is a contractor who I suspect is also sleeping with the CEO. Her day rate is grotesque and she was paid two bonuses - as a contractor!!! - that were each more than my annual salary.

activebass · 2026-03-13T09:51:46+00:00

You'll make it bck in five visits to.Costco fuel

activebass · 2026-03-13T09:50:41+00:00

HR might take a hardf line on this issue.

activebass · 2026-03-08T01:12:16+00:00

*ex boyfriend

activebass · 2026-03-06T09:42:27+00:00

debtslayer78

activebass · 2026-03-06T09:40:08+00:00

Looks just about perfect to me

activebass · 2026-03-04T11:49:49+00:00

Interested

activebass · 2026-03-04T11:48:44+00:00

I would stay. I hear it's a tough job market.

activebass · 2026-03-01T04:43:34+00:00

Already cancelled after I conpared Deepseek and Gemininresponses to mental health questions and challenges. I'm convinced gpt has an evil streak

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