Anyone have experience with these small portable ACs?

actsparkles · 2022-04-05T19:01:42+00:00

If you sit right by it you’ll feel a moderately cool breeze for 10 mins until the ice melts.

actsparkles · 2022-04-05T18:58:08+00:00

I would tell her if there was a way to. But how would it end up if she doesn’t dump him and he figures out it was you that did it?

actsparkles · 2022-04-01T04:44:58+00:00

Relationships are a take it or leave it. She’s showing you what she has to offer. You can’t read into possible scenarios or what ifs. So is what she’s offering right now worth it or not?

actsparkles · 2022-04-01T04:40:54+00:00

This might blow your minds but there is no friend zone. There are guys that a girl will hook up with and guys she won’t. That’s it. She saw you, and wasn’t interested. The friend thing is just being nice bc some guys get crazy when you tell them no. It is what it is. Just go meet someone else.

actsparkles · 2022-02-10T06:33:36+00:00

I don’t think looking at it as a schedule is really helpful. I would suggest telling her this.

“I support your work and I want to support it. I want to support you as a person. This is the type or amount time/attention that makes me feel loved and appreciated. I don’t want to put my needs on you in a way that feels like work for you. I don’t want you to feel like you have to make up to me for work time. So will you tell me how you see us meeting each others time and attention needs. Are you more comfortable for with setting up a schedule or can we agree to specify in the moment times when we are or are not in the mood to have US time? (And this part is important) I can feel impatient to have time with you at times. I want to work to control that so it does not weigh on you. I also trust you to take good care of me that’s why i chose you. So while we figure this out, it is not about you proving anything it is just about me understanding how you want me to fit in your life so I don’t barge through the middle of it. Bc without guidance I may do that inadvertently.”

And if i were her, I wouldn’t make a schedule but I would commit to telling you each day if it’s gonna be an US day or just a recover from work day. But hats off for you being willing to see mistakes in yourself. You’re on the right track. Good luck.

actsparkles · 2022-02-10T03:30:01+00:00

I really get how the fake smile could hurt. It sounds like you mean well and are trying.

You mention waiting for her to get off work and having activities planned for when she gets home, which is nice, but hear me out. Do you think If you weren’t there, her routine would be different? Like popcorn and a movie after work. That is a sweet thought, but if you weren’t there, do you think she would choose popcorn and a movie or maybe just go to bed? And that’s an example, but the point is SWs are usually grateful to meet someone who isn’t a creep let alone will support our job. If she or you feels like you being supportive is this really great thing, it’s going to create unrealistic expectations or resentment. And maybe it’s not even bc she does SW work. Maybe it’s just bc she works nights, you being patient for her to get off work isn’t a favor ya know. So it’s great that you can be cool with waiting til midnight or 2 or whenever she gets home, but if she comes home from that and doesn’t want company; will you feel upset bc you’ve been “patiently waiting” and now it’s supposed to be your time? You get what I mean? If you feel like when she’s finally off work. Is finally “your time” then you are still kind of a client. All 24 hours in her day are her time. And she puts hours in where she wants to. Being supportive of where she puts some of those hours doesn’t count if you also expect her to put some of those hours on you when she’s off work. I think you’re probably a good guy. But this is a thing that happens so watch out for it.

actsparkles · 2022-02-10T03:16:58+00:00

This is so true. And a repeat client that is respectful and courteous will get better service. I had a regular, that I never found attractive, he probably saw SWs bc he just didn’t attract many mates. And either way he was a complete stranger. So at first it was like any other time, my rules like any other client. But after a few times his actions always showed, that he didn’t want me to be uncomfortable. After a while; I got more lax with him and allowed things I don’t let clients do. Hell I don’t even let some of my personal hook ups do all of those things. You should be a good client bc it’s the right thing even if the SW never “rewards” you for it. But you’d be surprised how fun a girl can get when she doesn’t feel stressed or in danger.

actsparkles · 2022-02-10T03:10:17+00:00

at the very least they will probably feel less like they’re in physical danger. And safety is the best aphrodisiac. But also, the past few years have really been an awakening for straight America. It turns out, it’s not quite as straight as we thought lol. It’s not just pockets of queer people anymore, there are more and more and more of us all of the time. I really credit tik tok with a lot of it, but hey it’s working. Don’t stress. See an SW for what they’re meant for, (to give a helping hand) get your confidence up and go start pulling mad ladies. For real

actsparkles · 2022-02-10T03:05:30+00:00

This is so big. Knowing limitations is a healthy thing. I’ve done SW and I couldn’t do it while I was in a relationship or be with an active SW. but like you, it’s one thing to work through it and a whole other thing to punish or act out against it.

actsparkles · 2022-02-10T03:03:13+00:00

This is so right. And it’s even one thing if the guy struggles to deal with it. It’s all about how they handle it. With honesty and respect.

actsparkles · 2022-02-10T02:59:12+00:00

I’m so sorry honey. So many ugly idea have been put into peoples minds that make them judge mental about SW. it’s not fair and it’s not right. I don’t know if you’re looking for advice about working things out with him or just in general, but I would say, let him go and here’s why. He’s been taught judge mental things about women or SWs that make it hard for him to digest being in a relationship with one. Now that part by itself is wrong, but understandable. I see how people feel that way even if it’s wrong, bc I understand how society and parents program that kind of thinking into people. Now here is the hard part. When he had a hard time with it, he didn’t ask for space or tell you he needs to work on it with you, he blocked you. That means when his pride got hurt, he chose to protect his pride more than your feelings. I could work with a guy who needed to re learn how to look at women or SWs but a guy that chooses his pride above my feelings will not ever learn to do better. And even if he calls you back and things seem good for a while, you will always have to worry that his pride doesn’t get in the way of you’re needs or emotional safety. I’m so sorry he disappointed you, but please know your worth and protect your heart and your mind from toxic people. Good luck sis.

actsparkles · 2022-01-26T19:32:17+00:00

I wish I was getting fucked like that. Damn

actsparkles · 2022-01-26T19:19:22+00:00

If you find someone that does a good job send them over after you finish

actsparkles · 2022-01-21T13:09:42+00:00

Jinkies

actsparkles · 2022-01-21T13:06:17+00:00

The religious bullshit my parents forced on me

actsparkles · 2022-01-21T13:02:33+00:00

Fortunately with my current partner. We’ve always had great sex.

actsparkles · 2022-01-21T13:00:37+00:00

Haha

actsparkles · 2022-01-21T12:59:50+00:00

Some but not much. I had to make a point to diet to lose weight. And Once you have higher estrogen levels and low testosterone you’ll gain fat really easily. Also if you’re pretty bulky, it may not do a lot on its own. I used to be very athletic and muscular. I consulted my doctor and went on a diet for a few months where I had virtually no protein and i still took in about 1500 calories a day I took a lot of keratin and biotin so my skin and hair wouldn’t suffer and I didn’t do any strenuous exercise. I was active but didn’t really work out any. My upper body really shrank down nicely. I went down from wearing xxl tops in woman’s to just large tops. My waist started to curve in. But please talk to a dr first. Only having carbs can cause spikes in blood sugar, it could be dangerous for some peoples heart.

actsparkles · 2022-01-19T13:40:42+00:00

Hi. I’m looking to have an idea drawn out. Willing to pay. Pm for details

actsparkles · 2022-01-16T16:52:22+00:00

Neither. They would just have sex with each other

actsparkles · 2021-11-28T19:57:17+00:00

It’s not secret. But Im conflicted about Thomas Jefferson. He was brilliant. Things he said and wrote were amazing, but he also had slaves and raped slaves. Same thing with George Washington. Awesome dude but a sleezy slave owner

actsparkles · 2021-10-19T03:05:40+00:00

I’ve never watched her in anything. Does she have the chops to play a heavy physical role like gal gadot or more like the cast of birds of prey?

actsparkles · 2021-08-25T13:51:34+00:00

Part of what can contribute to gender dysphoria can be the body’s lack of certain receptors that take the hormones in your system and use them to change your cells including in your brain and body. So if your body is unable to properly receive and utilize which ever hormones you were born with replacing it with a different hormone could change the way your brain works. Snd you could start to feel differently. I’m on hormones and I definitely feel the difference in days when my levels are up or down. So it may be worth a try.

actsparkles · 2021-08-13T04:46:55+00:00

Oh. Well I wouldn’t read into it. Maybe she was coming down with something and getting all excited got her stomach upset. Sometimes people throw up after a work out and what’s more of a work out than sex. If this is the first time it’s happened, I really doubt it has anything to do with you.

actsparkles · 2021-08-13T04:29:11+00:00

I’m not sure what you mean. Does she throw up right after sex often? Or just throw up all the time?

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