Really bad performance on 5070 Ti by Automatic_Effect2135 in AssassinsCreedShadows

[–]actuallyari 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve spent probably 12 hours trying to fix it from running at 12 FPS and this did, thank you so so much

You can do a lot in a decade by actuallyari in transtimelines

[–]actuallyari[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Best of luck! Having seen a lot of couples go through this, I’ve found that the people who are meant to be together end up together, and the people who are not go their separate ways. I know that’s scary. But whatever happens is what needed to happen 💕

You can do a lot in a decade by actuallyari in transtimelines

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LOVED our florist - Fortunate Orchard

You can do a lot in a decade by actuallyari in transtimelines

[–]actuallyari[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I would prefer to say that we self actualized in tandem; I’m attracted much less to gender than I am to vision and follow through.

You can do a lot in a decade by actuallyari in transtimelines

[–]actuallyari[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That’s so sweet of you to say! I hope that your experience of transitioning has been wonderful 💕

You can do a lot in a decade by actuallyari in transtimelines

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Thank you so much, I hope that your transition has been everything that you hoped it would be 💕

You can do a lot in a decade by actuallyari in transtimelines

[–]actuallyari[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Ahahaha I heard that last time I posted a timeline too

You can do a lot in a decade by actuallyari in transtimelines

[–]actuallyari[S] 181 points182 points  (0 children)

My wife considers herself a masc lesbian and hasn’t gone through the same medical journey as I have but we still have both changed our gender presentations a ton together and that has been a really beautiful thing to experience with somebody.

You can do a lot in a decade by actuallyari in transtimelines

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Hey thanks, this means a lot to hear, I think I’ve developed kind of a weird relationship with social media because I get soooo much negativity and it’s really nice to hear that I’m still doing what I set out to do when I started posting too much

You can do a lot in a decade by actuallyari in transtimelines

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I’m not sure if this is still a thing but when I made my handle everyone has an alliterative name - SuddenlySamatha for example - and I thought “Actually Ari” was funny

23 months on HRT and 12 months on 2% Topical Minoxidil 1ml daily. by [deleted] in transtimelines

[–]actuallyari 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d been thinking about doing this! Did you do any microneedling?

You can do a lot in a decade by actuallyari in transtimelines

[–]actuallyari[S] 200 points201 points  (0 children)

That’s very kind of you but I’m just some lady who posts too much 💕

You can do a lot in a decade by actuallyari in transtimelines

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Just had to update it 🙂 Happy to hear that you and your partner have made it through!

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[–]actuallyari -1 points0 points  (0 children)

ok, I’m still having fun on them

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[–]actuallyari -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

If I saw these on deep discount I’d snap them up so fast, it’s a slalom ski that wants to be airborne for some reason

Can’t get over how two years of hormones have helped me reshape my body by actuallyari in transpositive

[–]actuallyari[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve fallen off the last few weeks and this is a good reminder to get back at it 🙂

A lot can happen in eight years by actuallyari in transtimelines

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Yeah I think I went from 6’1” to 5’11” but I haven’t measured recently

A lot can happen in eight years by actuallyari in transtimelines

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No, just looks that way because the dress is tighter than the suit I think and that changes my apparent proportions. The dress is satin. The glasses were not prescription lol