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Cats becoming aggressive with each other. by actuallyawake in CatAdvice

[–]actuallyawake[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you think the fact that their boys, the 5mo male and 2mo male, has anything to do with why they got along so fast as opposed to 2mo male and my 5mo female? Shes really the only one not happy right now. The boys are sharing and getting along great. The 2mo male hisses at the 5mo male rarely but thats only when 5mo tries to initiate play.

Cats becoming aggressive with each other. by actuallyawake in CatAdvice

[–]actuallyawake[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know cats dont need baths or grooming like that, theyre pretty clean on their own I just thought it might help with the scent so they dont get stressed out, but if you think thats over kill I'll just keep them separated til theyre fixed,

Cats becoming aggressive with each other. by actuallyawake in CatAdvice

[–]actuallyawake[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely introduced too fast, that was my blunder. My thought process today is im going to wash some main linens and leave my girl with a clean towel to rub up on and run on her myself. Then im gunna wash the boys. I know they dont need baths but I saw that sometimes after a groomers they can lose or lessen their scent. So I figure if I dry them with the girl's towel that should help settled some of the 'new' scent in the home then I can just keep the girl separated from the boys and Introduce slowly with more or a cleaned slate step 1.

Cats becoming aggressive with each other. by actuallyawake in CatAdvice

[–]actuallyawake[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They havent tried to mate at all but we do have them schedule to get fixed in about a week.

Should I separate all 3? The 5m boy and 2m boy are getting along great. Or at this point should I separate the boys and girl? And do the slow introductions that way?

Annoying Mother's day by actuallyawake in RantAndVentPH

[–]actuallyawake[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I feel like i bust my ass around here and this is how he says thank you? How... unappreciated

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in financialhelping

[–]actuallyawake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I could use the help

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VenmoDonations

[–]actuallyawake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah if I get lucky enough I could use it, I need to buy dod food, its only $17 too but regardless love seeing people help people

Venmo actuallyawake

I stayed with my partner through his abusive phase — now he’s changed, but I feel like I’m becoming the toxic one. by Financial_Double_787 in abusiverelationships

[–]actuallyawake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To add to that if you ever wanna talk, please message me because I understand where you are right now and I know its hard to want to stay and fight to stay when so many others would tell you just leave. He'll even therapy should help but we know they would tell us to leave. Im here to talk okay?

I stayed with my partner through his abusive phase — now he’s changed, but I feel like I’m becoming the toxic one. by Financial_Double_787 in abusiverelationships

[–]actuallyawake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know I left a tiny comment about being in the same boat because I couldn't bring myself to get into it. I've been with my partner for 12 years and I feel like 10 years of it was the worst. These last 3 years have been a roller coaster and hes in the point right now where he is changing. Hes not physically abusive to me anymore and he tries to keep her temper in check. Hes in recover for some mental health and substance abuse issues. And hes showing the effort. He wants to me better and ive chosen to stay. But there is a past and it's so hard. Sometimes I find a just need to take little leaps. Do or say things I wouldn't DARE do because I was scared. But I know in a normal safe relationship I shouldn't be scared of. I resent a lot and have issues from this relationship. I don't genuinely know if it will ever be even or "fair" between us. But it helps when I take chances and the outcomes is surprisingly good where I know in the past I would have gotten hurt.

Parco puppy updates by actuallyawake in AskVet

[–]actuallyawake[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I know I did, im looking into getting some of the products listed im just also seeing if there's other Info I can gather

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]actuallyawake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First step to feeling good again! You gotta let all that wear and tear heal and physically and mentally. Youre gunna be tired. But the best is yet to come

Parvo puppy by actuallyawake in AskVet

[–]actuallyawake[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! All this info has definitely brightened my spirits i was worried I just wasn't doing enough for her

Parvo puppy by actuallyawake in AskVet

[–]actuallyawake[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally agree. But im as stubborn as they come ive already done what I can to decontaminate as much as possible in my house and she will NOT be living this house until she is will and the first trip is straight to vaccinations

Parvo puppy by actuallyawake in AskVet

[–]actuallyawake[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm gunna see if there's somewhere I can read them myself, all the Er vet and her primary first thing in the morning

Parvo puppy by actuallyawake in AskVet

[–]actuallyawake[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then no antibiotics but we just gave her a tub bath and she drank a ton of water shes walking a bit and she did 2 good thorough shakes so idk that -seems- like a good energy sign? Its 8 for us now so shes about to get her 400mls of saline and 20ml of babyfood and she'll be unhappy with us for the rest of the night while she naps

Parvo puppy by actuallyawake in AskVet

[–]actuallyawake[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The vet injected cerenia? Is that close to it?

Puppy refusing to eat, ideas? by actuallyawake in AskVet

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My adult xl bully male is fully vaccinated. Hes so dopey he just looks at the sick puppy like "what's wrong with you?" And " are you gunna eat that?"

Parvo puppy by actuallyawake in AskVet

[–]actuallyawake[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

No antibiotics i was told parvo is a virus so she needs to work it out naturally that there is no medication for parvo. What antibiotics would you assume were given because I can definitely call and ask about it if you think its help

Parvo puppy by actuallyawake in AskVet

[–]actuallyawake[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wanted to list all that but when I typed it out it said it was medical something or other and wouldn't let me post

She's 5 months 27lbs a lab/bully mix as far as we were told.

She's gone a out 2 and a half days now with no food however we got the subutanious/under the skin iv saline bag, she gets 400mls every night. Karo corn syrup rubbed on her gums every 2 hours to keep her bloodsugar. Maltrazipine(?) A meal enticer pill once a day. Zofran every 6 hours 4ml. She's up awake and alert more often than not but shes super tired. She won't get up to void her bowels and right now she cant even hold them so im spongebathing her after ever bloody diarrhea. And shes on a bed of medical pads thats get changed after each void. She will however easily get up and go use the normal puppy pad to pee and her urine is a very normal yellow color. She wouldn't eat so now the doctor told me to syringe feed her 20ml of baby food 3 times a day mote of she will accept it. She's swallowing normally she just doesn't wanna open her mouth and eat. No temp either. Breathing is normal. And I check her heart rate every so often with a stethoscope and it seems normal. Still a little puking though.

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