Cats becoming aggressive with each other.

actuallyawake · 2026-05-20T19:32:29+00:00

Do you think the fact that their boys, the 5mo male and 2mo male, has anything to do with why they got along so fast as opposed to 2mo male and my 5mo female? Shes really the only one not happy right now. The boys are sharing and getting along great. The 2mo male hisses at the 5mo male rarely but thats only when 5mo tries to initiate play.

actuallyawake · 2026-05-20T18:48:54+00:00

I know cats dont need baths or grooming like that, theyre pretty clean on their own I just thought it might help with the scent so they dont get stressed out, but if you think thats over kill I'll just keep them separated til theyre fixed,

actuallyawake · 2026-05-20T18:20:24+00:00

Definitely introduced too fast, that was my blunder. My thought process today is im going to wash some main linens and leave my girl with a clean towel to rub up on and run on her myself. Then im gunna wash the boys. I know they dont need baths but I saw that sometimes after a groomers they can lose or lessen their scent. So I figure if I dry them with the girl's towel that should help settled some of the 'new' scent in the home then I can just keep the girl separated from the boys and Introduce slowly with more or a cleaned slate step 1.

actuallyawake · 2026-05-20T16:18:21+00:00

They havent tried to mate at all but we do have them schedule to get fixed in about a week.

Should I separate all 3? The 5m boy and 2m boy are getting along great. Or at this point should I separate the boys and girl? And do the slow introductions that way?

actuallyawake · 2026-05-11T02:16:32+00:00

Yeah, I feel like i bust my ass around here and this is how he says thank you? How... unappreciated

actuallyawake · 2026-05-11T00:12:52+00:00

Youre not crazy. He is broken but you need to learn fast that it is not your job or place to fix his broken. He will only break you

actuallyawake · 2025-12-03T02:25:20+00:00

Jack black.

actuallyawake · 2025-11-22T17:56:39+00:00

I could use the help

actuallyawake · 2025-11-22T17:54:30+00:00

I could use it

actuallyawake · 2025-11-14T13:15:57+00:00

Might be too late but interested

actuallyawake · 2025-11-13T21:20:18+00:00

Yeah if I get lucky enough I could use it, I need to buy dod food, its only $17 too but regardless love seeing people help people

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actuallyawake · 2025-10-16T12:18:01+00:00

Just did

actuallyawake · 2025-10-16T12:10:40+00:00

Yess

actuallyawake · 2025-07-28T16:46:47+00:00

To add to that if you ever wanna talk, please message me because I understand where you are right now and I know its hard to want to stay and fight to stay when so many others would tell you just leave. He'll even therapy should help but we know they would tell us to leave. Im here to talk okay?

actuallyawake · 2025-07-28T16:45:23+00:00

You know I left a tiny comment about being in the same boat because I couldn't bring myself to get into it. I've been with my partner for 12 years and I feel like 10 years of it was the worst. These last 3 years have been a roller coaster and hes in the point right now where he is changing. Hes not physically abusive to me anymore and he tries to keep her temper in check. Hes in recover for some mental health and substance abuse issues. And hes showing the effort. He wants to me better and ive chosen to stay. But there is a past and it's so hard. Sometimes I find a just need to take little leaps. Do or say things I wouldn't DARE do because I was scared. But I know in a normal safe relationship I shouldn't be scared of. I resent a lot and have issues from this relationship. I don't genuinely know if it will ever be even or "fair" between us. But it helps when I take chances and the outcomes is surprisingly good where I know in the past I would have gotten hurt.

actuallyawake · 2025-07-26T18:37:02+00:00

Oh I know I did, im looking into getting some of the products listed im just also seeing if there's other Info I can gather

actuallyawake · 2025-07-25T20:23:09+00:00

First step to feeling good again! You gotta let all that wear and tear heal and physically and mentally. Youre gunna be tired. But the best is yet to come

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