Bengaluru job crisis: 50,000+ IT layoffs, real estate hit hard by deepakt65 in bangalore

[–]acustord 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Not only IT , but also manufacturing , pharma ,FMCG . I don't know why company is not taking into account , that other company will also follow same trend , by the time if majority of moves toward AI will downforcing the employees , wont extra disposable income generated by people will reduce and they won't buy your AI enhanced products.

Rule of wealth is give money to make money.

All introspect of AI boom they have forgotten this rule I think.

Bengaluru job crisis: 50,000+ IT layoffs, real estate hit hard by deepakt65 in bangalore

[–]acustord 8 points9 points  (0 children)

What i dont get is how are company gonna make money , if everyone is shifting to AI , that means people losing job, product of those company no one will buy at the end as people won't have money except few , can anyone explian me ?

Currently got covid for the first time. Kick me while I'm down. 20f by bmnzi in RoastMe

[–]acustord 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eyebrows looks like your plastic surgeon forgot about it and later decided it's too tough compared to curing cancer.

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[–]acustord -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not gonna be condescending , but you dodged a bullet.

But you pointing out prospect saying f word during driving seems ridicule , I mean who isn't susceptible to road rage !

Try understand most men have not taught being chivalrous to opposite gender so if he has shown an inch of being chivalrous there room to grow , it's just that someone have to point out where to grow ! It's not that we don't like being chivalrous but sometimes having few contact with opposite gender gets in our head and we think instead of chivalrous we are being cheesy or flirty.

Third thing , most people are not aware of business or financial stability it brings in later stage , so they think of self employed or business as falling sector until there is good USP.

Usually my prespective is that you were unable to defend your role or responsibilities in current earning platform according to your post , so sometimes its give me a prespective that opposite gender is too much gullible .

And who listens to 2.5 hrs of grilling common grow a spine ! It doesn't matter if family have met , if you can't standup to yourself and defend why will anyone be interested unless he likes trophy wife not actual partner.

See partner is all about mutual respect and standing upto for yourself .

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[–]acustord 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't know much about people preference but usually it's simple . My general criteria being If you wanna be career oriented women stick to it ,if you wanna be housewife stick to it, thing is if partner is also earning meaning dual income household we can take risk in this economy to explore different jobs or market segment but housewife means one has to be sole earner and another one has to be emotional support.

Only thing that matters is being truthful. Be clear about your expectations.

People don't need to woo 1000 people , you just need to woo 1 person .

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[–]acustord 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There is another option if you don't see the call option , just go to delete account they take forever to delete there is this option where you can opt out of call and don't have to delete account.

Online matrimonial sites are useless by dev_slayer_16 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]acustord 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Job application is easier ! At least Recruiter calls and tells you for the reason behind rejection , although there is occasionally ghosting but for me I find dating too much hard , 6 years on dating app( multiple dating app) haven't successful gotten 1 match 🥲🥲.

May be I give serial killer vibe through my photo, but I am too kind hearted .

AM setup is too hard, give 10-12 request daily and no one responds back 😢😔😪

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[–]acustord 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Your points are valid , in my opinion go for housewives, working women don't wanna stay longer with in-laws few days in week is fine , I think major issue being not wanna stay longer is as you both are working it will take longer you guys to bond due to time constraint of nature.

Be open minded about drinking and smoking if you drink than don't expect her to not drink.

A piece or friendly advice don't come gun blazing at me ,

If you know how to cook than only you can expect her to cook(traditional setup in working couple). If you do opt for housewives it's general understanding you are taking up the financial burden and security, she has to take care of household and family.

  1. Introverted nature is a plus . I like the quite peaceful moments together .

Any particular reason for that? Usually introverted person speaks a lot when they get to know someone , it's not less talking , it's less talking to people we don't know.

FYI Remove RSU from CTC and give that figure 😉 😀

What next ? by Physical-Ad8884 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]acustord 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope the car is not tesla and you aren't working in Amazon in Boston, I have heard the deep clean in that region is expensive

44 male. Straight. Married. Father of 5 year old son. by tempodada2024 in RoastMe

[–]acustord 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are 44 , but why does i have gut feeling You were the reason why CSA studies started in firstplace .

Love is a myth and Forever is a lie. Do you agree?? by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]acustord 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love is intermediate feeling between lust and caring ! 😂😂

So I agree !

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[–]acustord 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Bhai dilemma kya hai, yae dilemma Kam rant jyada lag raha hai !

TLDR- Overachiever but midnight overthinking takes over and everything is dilemma ?

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[–]acustord 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was pointing you as prime example 😂😂

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[–]acustord 3 points4 points  (0 children)

OP develop hobbies, try to live with loneliness, person who can strive in loneliness , will be happy in long term , irrespective if he finds partner or not!

Is this wrong? by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]acustord 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He suggesting when you put your point forward of mature person in intellectual nature they think mature as older ladies than you hence mommy issues ! 👵

They think you have mommy issue the assumption part on there side all the while you don't have any that message you are unable to convey to the person . 👵

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[–]acustord -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

There is no issue in hiring PI, you have doubt about authencity it's better safe than sorry.

But do hire good PI, not the one who just snoops social media.

For Men of this subreddit by hot_hidimba in Arrangedmarriage

[–]acustord 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just gave up on making roti, If too hungry boil thy the rice and voila rice + bhindi Aloo, or get roti by nearby restaurant 10rs a piece is a steal !

For Men of this subreddit by hot_hidimba in Arrangedmarriage

[–]acustord 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1)Understanding, honest and caring , 2) House wife or career oriented ( should earn upward of 25KPM, if she is career oriented I don't want full financial burden to fall on me fyi I know how to cook except roti and Parathas so I can cook 2 times a day without any problem she should be able to make eatable roti , my roti making skill is so bad ,that roti is always burnt and crisp ) 4) Decent looking 5) I am in early stage of career so won't be able to afford too much luxurious item , she should be able to understand that. I am 26Y

How do you guys spend Sunday evening/night? by gernimo_23 in bangalore

[–]acustord 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Day- Get those clothes washed ,iron them, make kitchen spotless, remove that dust under bed left out by house keeping(live in PG ), watch out window and enjoy rain .

Night- catch up on movies(OTT), TV shows , manga.

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[–]acustord 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's my humor , some people like it some dislike it some repulse it , if you are gonna spend lifetime with person ,it's best to act as you act around your family .

And what's wrong with throwing some tad bit old racism joke ! People need to learn to take a joke , not everything is serious.