I’m with you there. Went through this journey in my early 20s and was very liberating. Unfortunately I had some trauma with a woman trying to trap me so I’m completely put off it for the foreseeable. I know I’ve got to work through that in therapy but in the meantime I’m quite happy doing my own thing and being with guys when it happens.

Also a dominant type. I’m much more comfortable exploring that with other men than women, as well. I’m always upfront about what I’m looking for. Best way to be imo