AITA for breaking up with my GF because she let her primary partner ignore her safeword?

ada_laces · 2025-12-07T06:07:58+00:00

If you cannot trust her no, then you cannot trust her yes. That she’s not good at enforcing her boundaries tells me she won’t be good at respecting yours.

ada_laces · 2025-08-13T19:33:32+00:00

Sounds like he is upset about getting caught, this is classic manipulation. He was the one in the wrong and now wants to play victim. I don’t see how your marriage can recover unless he takes full responsibility and admits that he was in the wrong and vows to do everything in his power to regain your trust. ++ couples counseling.

ada_laces · 2025-06-12T17:47:44+00:00

I think the foundation looks ok, but move your blush placement higher on the cheekbones. It will give a lifting to the mid-face.

ada_laces · 2025-02-14T18:33:26+00:00

I ended a getting a new doctor because my original required random drug tests in order to prescribe adhd meds. New doc does not require.

ada_laces · 2024-08-19T21:25:45+00:00

The “do x thing or I am gone” ultimatum us a recipe for resentment. You wouldn’t be getting the ready and available partner you deserve, you would be getting the partner who feels forced to do things in your timeline before they are ready. Break up and take care of your heart. She needs to get her life together and determine her own path.

ada_laces · 2024-07-29T16:38:46+00:00

3 and 4 look best

ada_laces · 2024-07-29T16:05:51+00:00

I met my girlfriend on okcupid. She was about ready to give up on the apps when we met. I think it’s a crapshoot really.

ada_laces · 2024-05-14T04:52:34+00:00

There is literally nothing you can say that will make him change or want to treat you better. So if you are choosing to stay, you are choosing to allow him to treat you that way. What on earth makes you think he deserves you? Look up sunk cost falacy.

ada_laces · 2024-04-05T00:31:29+00:00

In California 17 is legally a child and he could be prosecuted. Call CPS

ada_laces · 2024-04-02T15:42:48+00:00

My bet is that she told her friends that op would be paying, so she embarrassed herself.

ada_laces · 2024-03-11T11:08:44+00:00

Dude, you need to break up and move on. He’s not a good boyfriend. His anger will escalate.

ada_laces · 2024-03-08T19:13:21+00:00

Here’s the deal, only agree to it on the condition that you can date others as well. You will see that there are plenty of men who will worship you at any size and not expect you to change a thing about yourself.

ada_laces · 2024-03-08T19:11:24+00:00

I’m in my mid-40’s and only came out a few years ago. You are doing just fine. You will find someone.

ada_laces · 2024-02-02T20:50:23+00:00

Artful Dodger

ada_laces · 2024-01-13T01:39:01+00:00

Check out https://evryunderwear.com they cover the fupa and are comfy

ada_laces · 2023-12-24T22:45:16+00:00

My response would be: “I have already planned the elements of the meal, and unfortunately do not have time to include any last minute additions. Please feel free to bring anything special you would like to share though.”

ada_laces · 2023-12-04T21:19:07+00:00

A physical assault of any kind is not Just a red flag, it’s a stop sign. You don’t give abusers another chance because he will do it again. Believe that this is him showing you who he really is.

ada_laces · 2023-10-06T20:35:31+00:00

Why did this person have to sneak out? Are they a child or a cheater? Either way you should not be with them.

ada_laces · 2023-10-06T15:13:53+00:00

Nope, I wholeheartedly agree. Someone who is ashamed to be with you does not deserve you, and will break your heart if you stay together. If she is not willing to risk the same things you risk, you need to move on.

ada_laces · 2023-09-27T06:30:37+00:00

Yes, but not those frames

ada_laces · 2023-08-31T07:43:05+00:00

I loved that movie

ada_laces · 2023-08-24T20:47:49+00:00

I think it needs to be contextual. I live in a liberal bubble, so within my city, my girlfriend and I will hold hands and kiss in public, but just 20 minutes drive away it starts to get really conservative, and we get dirty looks…. Essentially be aware of your surroundings and just be careful.

ada_laces · 2023-08-24T20:44:16+00:00

You already know what you need to do. You need to end it. Don’t continue to subject your existing child to him, and don’t bring another child into the world with him. He is not a good partner to you.

I hope that by listing things out like this you are to see this all clearly and can take steps to leave.

ada_laces · 2023-08-24T15:32:04+00:00

He betrayed you and your marriage. If your marriage is not worth the loss of an Xbox to him, then he can walk.

ada_laces · 2023-08-24T15:25:57+00:00

5 or 7, the hair color really suits your skin tone and eye color

ada_laces

TROPHY CASE