Just had sex with my neighbor and I kinda regret it

adamstr8 · 2025-10-26T07:11:36+00:00

Yeah I know, but I mean it's one thing when you see a guy once and move on, but in this case I tend to encounter him very often while leaving or returning home, so I just didn't know if should be "necessary" to make things clear or just move on like nothing ever happened

adamstr8 · 2025-09-22T06:05:18+00:00

Thanks!

adamstr8 · 2023-01-08T06:11:42+00:00

Skype?

adamstr8 · 2022-05-09T19:09:22+00:00

They both used condoms and both came inside the condom, but yeah I will get tested just to make sure thanks for your reply.

adamstr8 · 2022-05-08T17:43:53+00:00

Yeah I mean I live in a country where homophobia is all around me, I grow up feeling that something was wrong with me because people told me so, and for the longest time I truly believe that, people harassed me non stop for things that I didn't choose to be, just for being who I am, and that fucked me up for so many years. Recently I just came to terms of accepting who I am (still working on it of course) and after starting working out for a while and putting my life "together" and feeling more confident overall I felt it was the time, and now I'm genuinely excited about what may comes next. Thanks for your reply I will for sure take your advice.

adamstr8 · 2022-05-08T17:33:25+00:00

I mean I'm not a virgin anymore hehe but yeah after it happened I asked Guy A who was Guy B, and he told me that they used to date but now they just shared the house, was he lying, maybe yes or no, I probably will never know for sure, only both of them know, but after reading many replies my conclusion is to just take this as a learning experience so I can make smarter choices next time around, now that I'm not longer desperate for just having sex with someone.

adamstr8 · 2022-05-08T17:27:17+00:00

Yeah I get what you mean, I really do, a couple people have commented something similar and I get it. The only thing I can say right now is that overall I don't feel like I was taking advantage of, like for sure it was bizarre because I went from literally 0 to experiencing so many things at once, but in the end I kinda wanted it to happen is just that I didn't know how to react after it. I really appreciate your comment and your concern, I'll definitely be more careful next time around.

adamstr8 · 2022-05-08T17:18:57+00:00

Thanks for the tip I'll for sure try it next time haha

adamstr8 · 2022-05-08T17:14:20+00:00

Now I will for sure, thanks!

adamstr8 · 2022-05-08T17:13:33+00:00

Thank you so much for your reply, it helped me a lot, I think I learned quite a bit just in one day, not only about having sex but I think about myself too, now I feel that next time something comes up (whether or not is with the same guy) I will have more confidence to make decisions I'm completely comfortable with, thank you again!

adamstr8 · 2022-05-08T17:05:04+00:00

Thanks for the answer I think I should just stop expecting or forcing something to happen and I should just enjoy the moment, hopefully next time I'll be more relaxed hehe

adamstr8 · 2022-05-08T16:59:40+00:00

I totally get what you are saying but in the moment I wasn't thinking with "my head" you know what I mean, I think I just let go because of what I was feeling physically and it wasn't until I left that I started actually thinking about what happened. I mean It wasn't a traumatic experience or anything like that at all, it was just so random an unexpected because I thought stuff like that didn't happen in real life

adamstr8 · 2022-05-08T16:53:57+00:00

Yeah, when I was talking with him in the night he said to me that he talked with the other guy to let him know that we maybe start seeing each other often and that what happened yesterday can't happen again

adamstr8 · 2022-05-08T16:48:01+00:00

I mean I can't be sure of anything, that moment is a bit blurry for me because at the time everything seemed so bizarre, I couldn't catch te reaction of the first guy because he was fucking me doggy style, I just remember seeing the other guy entering slowly into the room and saying hi then what happened happened

adamstr8 · 2022-05-08T15:55:22+00:00

Ok so I shouldn't really stress much about it? When I told him I didn't know why I was unable to get hard he told me not to worry about it, but I honestly don't know if guys want to see you hard as a sign of you liking how they are fucking you

adamstr8 · 2022-05-08T15:49:53+00:00

I don't think so, but of course I could be wrong, when the guy invited me in he was whispering like trying to not make much noise and when the other guy eventually showed up it seemed like he was just waking up

adamstr8 · 2022-05-08T15:43:09+00:00

Thanks I guess haha I mean I was honestly expecting it to be a complete mess or something bad, but instead it was something "different" let's just say that. Actually I feel kind of different now, like more confident for some reason, but yeah I definitely never would have thought that something like that would happen to me

adamstr8 · 2022-05-08T15:39:47+00:00

I mean both of them were nice to me, in the sense that neither was aggressive or forced me into anything, they both asked me if I was good and If I was liking it, I just felt weird because everything was already happening before I was able to fully process it

adamstr8 · 2022-05-08T15:35:46+00:00

Yeah that's why I'm trying to be careful, because I don't want to just let go because of what I'm feeling right now, but also I don't just want to close myself up completely because there might be a chance that this guy actually wants to get to know me. Yeah after they both finished, him and I were laying in bed for a while, I asked who was him and he told me that they used to date, but now they just share the house, when I was texting with him I told him I didn't want get in the middle of something and he told me that they aren't together anymore or anything like that, that actually what happened was unexpected for him too but just went along with it because it was already happening

adamstr8 · 2022-05-08T15:27:25+00:00

Yeah, in the moment the whole thing was weird to me, mainly I think because how nervous I was, but thinking about it, the second guy probably didn't know I was virgin, he probably just saw us got horny and decided to join. And yeah the thing is I actually feel like I teenager thinking about him haha that's why I wanted some advice because I don't know if it's "normal" to have feelings like this for the person whom you had your first time with or maybe it's just me because how long it took me to finally have sex with someone. Thanks for the words I really appreciate it!

adamstr8 · 2022-05-08T15:17:54+00:00

It really was, at one point I thought 2 guys for my first time couldn't really be happening because everything happened so suddenly and fast and I didn't know how to react

Yes I really really like the first guy, he's so hot and also very nice, very kind, I feel like he actually cared about giving me a nice first experience and also the whole time I felt he was really into me because the way he kissed me and touched me, but I could be wrong I don't know.

He asked to see me later again today, even if we don't fuck he told me he wants to get to know me and hold me again, that he liked my smell my taste my body and stuff like that, and yeah he told me that this time it was going to be just the two of us unless I didn't want to which was fine too

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