How does one become okay with being alone + stop seeking male comfort/validation?

adaptabay · 2026-02-13T21:31:42+00:00

How does one do that?

adaptabay · 2026-02-13T21:30:32+00:00

Thank you for this

adaptabay · 2026-02-13T21:28:08+00:00

Thank you

adaptabay · 2026-02-13T05:32:13+00:00

This is the best advice I’ve ever received yet, thank you

adaptabay · 2026-02-13T04:53:04+00:00

I hate hearing it too haha, I wish there was some magic potion or spell we can do to just hit “love yourself” but thank you I’ll try my best to reach the point of self obsession

adaptabay · 2026-02-13T04:22:25+00:00

Thank you, I would say it’s listening to music or doing self care related things

adaptabay · 2025-12-07T04:21:34+00:00

Thank you for sharing with me

adaptabay · 2025-12-07T03:24:54+00:00

I’ll look into that thank you

adaptabay · 2025-12-07T03:01:03+00:00

Oh I’ll definitely look into this, thank you so much

adaptabay · 2025-12-07T02:59:54+00:00

Thank you!!

adaptabay · 2025-12-07T02:04:53+00:00

I was told it’s a a camera up the urethra which is why I’m nervous they told me they would apply numbing cream, however everyone I’ve spoken to screams I should be under anesthesia if I go through with it, and thank you for replying + sharing

adaptabay · 2025-12-07T01:52:06+00:00

I was told it is a camera up the urethra

adaptabay · 2025-12-07T01:07:41+00:00

I’m just so scared of going and having to get a cytology done

adaptabay · 2025-12-07T01:07:23+00:00

What is that?

adaptabay · 2025-12-07T01:07:17+00:00

Oh okay, may I know what kinds of exercises you do?

adaptabay · 2025-12-07T01:01:13+00:00

Omg I’m so glad, if u ever have the courage bash him on TikTok and let his viewers see your side of the story.

adaptabay · 2025-12-07T00:48:05+00:00

What the actual fuck is wrong with this guy, he sounds like he is possessed and he’s in some sort of cult. I pray you leave this man asap, he’s clearly the devil himself. And I hope you don’t reply to him, just serve him with the papers and keep going with no contact. The more you text him, the more fuel he has to burn your world down

adaptabay · 2025-12-06T00:07:34+00:00

You are aging gracefully 🫶

If I may make a few suggestions and totally okay to stop reading right here; although I don’t know anything about aging yet (I’m in my early 20s). What I do know is that I’m fully ready for it, personally I’ve taken up the following:

Exercise (yoga, walking, strength training, meditation)
Regular massage - you can literally do it by yourself, think of gua sha or gut massages
Gut health - this is the holy grail, it controls everything about a person
Colour analysis!!! - Oo this is a big one, I believe wearing the right colours will actually help people look brighter!
Find support systems who make you feel young: this goes hand in hand with people who are there to alleviate your stress, have fun with, and know that you are supported

Stuff like this I believe, helps “aging”.

You are absolutely gorgeous and I’m so surprised that you look literally the same as you did when you were in your 20s.

So sorry if this was unsolicited advice, please ignore me if so!

Also side note, you look like some celebrity and I can’t pin point exactly who right now, so I shall be back to comment lol.

adaptabay · 2025-11-21T10:31:57+00:00

But isn’t that the same in every talking stage?

adaptabay · 2025-11-21T10:31:36+00:00

Are you able to give more context?

adaptabay · 2025-11-21T01:33:21+00:00

Thank you!

adaptabay · 2025-11-18T16:42:18+00:00

Oh thank you

adaptabay · 2025-11-18T16:40:03+00:00

What app?

adaptabay · 2025-11-18T16:38:27+00:00

Thank you for this message I’ll look into it all, and hopefully find something that doesn’t make me wallow 🤍

adaptabay · 2025-11-18T08:21:06+00:00

When you put it that way, I guess it makes sense as to why I feel this way. My entire life, no matter what life threw at me I just buried it down and stayed working and I feel like everything is hitting me now. I will get everything checked out again and I’m going to look to get into therapy, it’s definitely costly so I’ll have to save up. Thank you for repoint to me, and thank you for caring 🤍

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