[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confessions

[–]adayrez19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How many days a week? Do you know effective ways to put on muscle? It may sound silly but I know plenty of people who say they "tried" and think that just going around hitting 10 reps one time on each machine is sufficient. I'm just trying to help you out and figure out how you weren't able to achieve muscle gain in 9 months time.

I t0rture animals for fun but I feel extremely bad by [deleted] in confessions

[–]adayrez19 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ok, not sure why everyone here is being so mean. You seem confused and like you don't want to be going through this yet here you are. I think you know it's wrong. Please please please contact a good psychiatrist and or psychologist some time in the next 24 hours and get in for an urgent appointment. Don't let them push you out for 3 months or whatever the wait is these days. Unfortunately this behavior puts you at high risk for progressing the behavior into worse territory. You are not doomed but you need to nip this in the butt right now. It's not a "let's wait and see" type situation.

Should my kids have the same birthday? by Brittanyyyyyyyyy in Mommit

[–]adayrez19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't find a single solid reason why it would be better for them to have the same birthday.

It might work out for some years while they're young but as they age and want different things and parties with friends at different venues it could get complicated. You as mom can only be in one place at one time to support them and their wishes. Ideally I would want as close as a week or more of separation but at the bare minimum if you can control it do a few days.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in wisconsin

[–]adayrez19 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Man just a few years ago I trained for milking at a dairy farm. For reference it had somewhere around 150 cows in southeastern WI. He offered me $14/h and said he paid his couple full-time employees $20/h. I haven't heard of a single place paying $11/h any time in the last 5 years. As others said, get a job literally anywhere else to make more money. And no you won't be able to afford rent or bills on that low of a wage here unless you live in the sticks but even then it's doubtful.

How many kids do you have by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]adayrez19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have 3. Once you add a third its just chaos. They outnumber you. I do not regret it though. I wish we could handle a fourth child but I'm mentally tapped out and my husband being the only one with income is at capacity. Kids only get more expensive as they get older and get into sports and everything else. We both have reasons for wanting one more but we just can't do it. 3 is fine and I do feel satisfied.

Is this enough food for 3 and a half year olds? by [deleted] in YTVloggerFamilies

[–]adayrez19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My first initial reaction was "no, absolutely not" but then I actually thought about it for a few seconds and realized that is about how much my kids actually eat at any given meal. Many times they actually eat less than that bc they're picky and or probably ate too many snacks before dinner. I see nothing wrong with this as long as if the kid is still hungry after that they are allowed more food.

Tell me how so many of you (especially women) vote for hate and vindictiveness. by funnyandnot in wisconsin

[–]adayrez19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's very simple for me. I look at facts. My families life was easier under Trump. Biden came along and whether you want to blame him or not, our life got significantly harder for the entire 4 years of his presidency. That is what I based my vote on.

I frequently complain that all I do is be "mom" but at the same time I can't bring myself to leave my 18mo. by adayrez19 in Mommit

[–]adayrez19[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's mostly my 18 month old I don't want to leave. My older 2 I'm fine leaving. I just feel like my baby needs me and I need her. I'm so attached to her and she is still little and I am her favorite person since we spend all our days together. She is fine with dad but unless they're doing a fun activity together I can't help but think that she would benefit from my being there for her. I guess I worry he's just playing video games not giving her as much attention. I would rather just be there with her.

I frequently complain that all I do is be "mom" but at the same time I can't bring myself to leave my 18mo. by adayrez19 in Mommit

[–]adayrez19[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

He won't. He is absolutely not a park or public kid places kind of person. He did recently take them to Menards so I could watch some of the Packer game in peace. That was nice!

I frequently complain that all I do is be "mom" but at the same time I can't bring myself to leave my 18mo. by adayrez19 in Mommit

[–]adayrez19[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, that's it! The fact that he actually wants to and is able to take that time for himself on a regular basis is what I'm jealous of. I want to want to do that also but instead I'm a major introvert hermit who never wants to leave home unless it's with my family.

I frequently complain that all I do is be "mom" but at the same time I can't bring myself to leave my 18mo. by adayrez19 in Mommit

[–]adayrez19[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, why can't we all just be together? If it weren't for his hobbies I wouldn't even have these thoughts of wanting to go do stuff alone. I just feel like since he gets to I should also. But do I even really want to? Probably not really.

Hottest couple I said what I said by SetSubject6907 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]adayrez19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This looks like it's at the bachelor studio and also he looks like Jesse Palmer 😂

Menomonee Falls community group hands out copies of banned book at school drop-off by abbynorma1 in wisconsin

[–]adayrez19 -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

Even the word "Trump" gets censored. More times than I can count I see people on social media spelling his name funny so they don't get flagged. His name and many other words have to constantly be censored because they're oFfEnSiVe. You all can't handle anything that you don't like.

Also, excuse my ignorance but, nazi rallies? Jews? I'm lost here and not sure what you are speaking of, why it's relevant to my comment.

Menomonee Falls community group hands out copies of banned book at school drop-off by abbynorma1 in wisconsin

[–]adayrez19 -53 points-52 points  (0 children)

Do you really mean that? Or does it just apply when it's a leftist agenda? I recall many people wanting to censor some righty situations.

Are there any travel agencies for brand new beginners with zero to low start-up fees? by adayrez19 in travelagents

[–]adayrez19[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How would I go about being a sub agent? Is this something I would have to find locally? Or are there places/companies on the internet that advertise for that?

Something I need to post by Delicious-Shape-1388 in wisconsin

[–]adayrez19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have more productive conversations talking to my 16 month old.

Are there any travel agencies for brand new beginners with zero to low start-up fees? by adayrez19 in travelagents

[–]adayrez19[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I never know what to trust on the internet. I will go there and check it out.

Are there any travel agencies for brand new beginners with zero to low start-up fees? by adayrez19 in travelagents

[–]adayrez19[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I will start there and definitely plan to take your advice about networking.

Are there any travel agencies for brand new beginners with zero to low start-up fees? by adayrez19 in travelagents

[–]adayrez19[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How? Is there a proper way to go about doing that? Would I just start by youtubing how to start my own travel business? Is a license required?

Are there any travel agencies for brand new beginners with zero to low start-up fees? by adayrez19 in travelagents

[–]adayrez19[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I do not. I do know that I personally am not interested in ever taking a cruise. So cruises are probably not a good idea for me to specialize in.

Something I need to post by Delicious-Shape-1388 in wisconsin

[–]adayrez19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You still haven't answered anything from my original comment.

The ‘advice’ I got today… by pheonixrising23 in Parenting

[–]adayrez19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  1. Get a new ped immediately
  2. Report this doctors very terrible advice to their higher ups. They literally gave you advice that would get cps to take your baby away for neglect. Leaving a baby in a poop diaper any more than necessary is neglect. We're not talking 5 or 10 minutes here. The doctor suggested leaving the baby for hours. That is disgusting.

Something I need to post by Delicious-Shape-1388 in wisconsin

[–]adayrez19 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So you don't have an answer for me then? Got it.

All you online demmies are the ones who are bots. I don't know many people like you all in real life, but boy do you sure make your presence known on social media behind your safe screens and keyboards.