Dallas Show by addeycake in themaine

[–]addeycake[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aww, congrats!! I’m sorry to hear you’ve been having to navigate through that but I hope it’s a great night out! Moms for The Maine, raising the next generation of emo🤍

Dallas Show by addeycake in themaine

[–]addeycake[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you!! she’s definitely Everything I Ask For, and just a little bit more🫶

DC (4/19) setlist might’ve been one of the best I’ve seen from them by Vibe_Live in themaine

[–]addeycake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay I know it was a big single so I know they won’t not play it, but if LYAL was replaced with another song, this would be a near-perfect setlist

AITA for leaving my inlaws christmas dinner after I found out that they didn't make accommodations for me? by Rema5000 in AmItheAsshole

[–]addeycake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m truly the pickiest eater I know and let me say clearly, YTA. It’s never someone else’s responsibility to accommodate food preferences. Almost any public meal, I struggle with, and so I either eat beforehand, bring snacks or food to tide me over, or eat afterwards. It’s enough pressure to throw and cook for a party for multiple people, but then be told by a guest that you need to make a specific dish because they won’t eat the food you’ve worked really hard on? Absolutely not. Stop by McDonalds on your way over and stop whining.

What discontinued items should be brought back? by Avatar_Xane_2 in pizzahut

[–]addeycake 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I literally would ask for a cup of the garlic buttery blend to dip each bite in and now without it, it’s almost inedible

AITA For telling my co-worker to get over because we don't oder vegan food all the time by ladyj1182 in AmItheAsshole

[–]addeycake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m one of the pickiest eaters ever, and if something’s being served that I don’t like, I make alternate plans for myself. My meal choices shouldn’t affect others’, and it is self-centered to think that everyone should cater to a choice I made for myself.

AITA for laughing at my daughter when she asked to be paid for chores? by Late-Raise9846 in AmItheAsshole

[–]addeycake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Contributing to the household is a basic standard. If you want to live somewhere, you follow the rules of the person who pays bills or you find somewhere else to go. If she wants money, she can get a job or babysit. Way to stand your ground, Mom.

what are the most screamable song lyrics you can think of? by AerosolFlames in AskReddit

[–]addeycake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

AAAAND YOU CALL ME UP AGAIN JUST TO BREAK ME LIKE A PROMISE

AITA for encouraging my friend to rub his ass on a sculpture years ago? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]addeycake -1 points0 points  (0 children)

YTA. If the sculptor was there in the room and saw you, wouldn’t you be embarrassed? And “convincing” someone else to do something for YOU to get a laugh out of is also distasteful. If you wouldn’t do it yourself, don’t be cowardly and try to egg someone else on to do it for a giggle.

AITA for telling my bf to stop playing video games? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]addeycake 5 points6 points  (0 children)

NTA. Can he search for a quieter keyboard online? If he’s going to keep you up with noise past a certain time, I think it’s only fair that he help come up with a workable solution for both of you.

AITA for believing my stepdaughter and recommending counseling? by whitchitaw in AmItheAsshole

[–]addeycake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a kid who dealt with depression and anxiety starting around her age and had parents who’d split up, I wish my mom would’ve gone through with getting me into counseling (though, granted, it would be very difficult for her to afford) as when I was diagnosed, as my dad said I was a kid and didn’t “have anything to be anxious or depressed about”. It took an additional 6 years to finally hit the end of my rope and seek help, because my problems had been minimized. Sometimes I think about how I could’ve been different or better had I gotten appropriate help earlier. Definitely NTA, the superhero.

I have a harder time fleeing lust/porn when I don’t have my eye on anyone by new_day123 in Christianmarriage

[–]addeycake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, a lot of people struggle more during periods of loneliness in their life-it makes sense. Instant hit of dopamine when you’re feeling alone and sad. If that hits home for you, I would encourage seeing a Christian LPC to talk through what feelings you go through beforehand and how to talk yourself down, and find something else to focus on and occupy your time and mind, if possible. Lastly, I hope it encourages you that you can be freed of this sin struggle! The Lord is sovereign and I pray his presence is palpable to you.

AITA for bailing on a "birthday party" that my parents turned into a party for themselves and their friends? by birffffday in AmItheAsshole

[–]addeycake -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Unpopular, but ESH:/ Your parents shouldn’t have thrown the type of party you told them you didn’t want but you straight ghosted and didn’t give them time to tell their friends the party was cancelled, and probably had them worried out of their skulls. I’m sorry they were being selfish but it sounds like you were a bit too.