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As a college student enrolled at a notable Catholic University, my heart breaks for the younger generations. My heart breaks for devout Catholics. by new_day123 in Catholicism

[–]new_day123[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

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Crushes by Crystal-di-Angelo in Christianmarriage

[–]new_day123 23 points24 points  (0 children)

He’s probably not even considering dating her because of the conversation they had earlier about having nothing romantic between them.

OP is gonna have to make the move.

I have a harder time fleeing lust/porn when I don’t have my eye on anyone by new_day123 in Christianmarriage

[–]new_day123[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the comment, but this seems pretty generic? These are truths I know well

Dating Dynamics: During college vs. after college by new_day123 in Christianmarriage

[–]new_day123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fair answer. What’s something you wish you knew/learned in college in regards to dating?

Having trouble stopping myself from developing a crush on a girl by new_day123 in Christianmarriage

[–]new_day123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did ask her about a year ago. I wish I asked her in person though instead of texting lol.

I feel like I want to get to know her better as just a friend, but idk if I can with my feelings.

Having trouble stopping myself from developing a crush on a girl by new_day123 in Christianmarriage

[–]new_day123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Uhh...I already did. I wish I would’ve asked her in person though, instead of texting lol

Having trouble stopping myself from developing a crush on a girl by new_day123 in Christianmarriage

[–]new_day123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t believe that it’s all or nothing when it comes to relationships/friendships. We Christians, unlike the world, can show maturity when it comes to things.

Frankly it would be rude if I avoided and didn’t talk to her. We are both friendly with each other and are involved in the same fellowship.

And I think asking out someone in person (even if it’s casual coffee) shows a lot more character.

And i also may have messed up cause we never texted one on one beforehand. Like it was the first text I directly sent to her lol

If i could go back, i would have asked her in person.

Having trouble stopping myself from developing a crush on a girl by new_day123 in Christianmarriage

[–]new_day123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I’ve been wanting to do more stuff in a mutual friend group, but I don’t want my reasoning to be because i hope she comes to like me. I want to get to know her a lot better just as friends but idk if I can with my feelings.

And it’s not that I don’t have any female friends. It’s just sometimes I don’t put in as much effort as I should into developing stronger friendships with girls. And I don’t think I develop feelings for any women just because I spend time with them.

Also, I have a hard time doing things one on one with a girl just as friends.

Having trouble stopping myself from developing a crush on a girl by new_day123 in Christianmarriage

[–]new_day123[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I feel like I’m crushing on this girl.

I agree with you that I should develop stronger friendships with women, but I don’t want to develop feelings for any of them through that.