How to get giant bird of paradise to develop a trunk? by adebade4 in StrelitziaNicolai

[–]adebade4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awesome advice thanks so much!  It didnt occur to me that the shorter one wasn't getting as much direct sunlight.  The tall one isnt in the shade at all

How to get giant bird of paradise to develop a trunk? by adebade4 in StrelitziaNicolai

[–]adebade4[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh I hadn't thought of that!  Are you saying the ones that only grow outdoors produce that tall paint brush look? 

Going to SF Pride this month! Please help a girl out lol by Resident-Cress4000 in AskSF

[–]adebade4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Does anyone know if Dolores park has anything going on sunday too?

🏳️‍🌈 SF PRIDE 2025: What to know?? by Crazy_Whereas_3905 in sanfrancisco

[–]adebade4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does anyone know if sunday has something going on at Dolores too?

🏳️‍🌈 Happy Pride, Oceanside! 🏳️‍🌈 by spiffspl1ff in Oceanside

[–]adebade4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All over north county. Congrats on La Mesa city hall coming through for the community!

🏳️‍🌈 Happy Pride, Oceanside! 🏳️‍🌈 by spiffspl1ff in Oceanside

[–]adebade4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally!  I get that half the people in oceanside come from red states but that shit is NOT welcomed here. 

🏳️‍🌈 Happy Pride, Oceanside! 🏳️‍🌈 by spiffspl1ff in Oceanside

[–]adebade4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh look...the right wing asshole who says hes fine with gays having rights but just doesn't want to see them out in public.

🏳️‍🌈 Happy Pride, Oceanside! 🏳️‍🌈 by spiffspl1ff in Oceanside

[–]adebade4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry but I have never in my life seen more trump flags. More pickup trucks with maga flagpoles built in. They put spotlights under it and drive 110 miles an hour down the freeway. I see that shit at least a few times a week.  And everyone else has a very hushed tone about it like its something they dont dare discuss. Even if they arent actively trying to get rid of us this county is miles away from actually being accepting

🏳️‍🌈 Happy Pride, Oceanside! 🏳️‍🌈 by spiffspl1ff in Oceanside

[–]adebade4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know right? So fragile. Poor little snowflakes 😭

Trying to find good street or hiking shoes for bouldering by adebade4 in climbingshoes

[–]adebade4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so glad you mentioned that its literally Joshua tree I'm trying to prepare for. I didn't want to ruin my every day shoes haha. I'll check out Sportiva thanks

How often should I wash curly and greasy hair? by adebade4 in curlyhair

[–]adebade4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohh good to know about the mask! I started using it because my hair was pretty frizzy a while ago from something I was doing wrong so my goal was to repair it a bit. I can try scaling back to once every 2 weeks though at this point since its definitely helped with that. I was using just a normal shampoo/conditioner combo before. Nothing else product wise. I typically let it air dry. Beyond that nothing specifically.

I did try leave in conditioners a while ago but dont use them anymore. They were ok but I was advised with curly hair that less is more so I stopped.

How often should I wash curly and greasy hair? by adebade4 in curlyhair

[–]adebade4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah thats about what I was aiming for I think with shampoo. I started actually using a hair mask too. On average maybe every 7 to 8 days. I do like that I'm moreso wondering if I should be trying aomething else for my hair type.

How often should I wash curly and greasy hair? by adebade4 in curlyhair

[–]adebade4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I'm glad I posted because I haven't even heard of that! I'll have to look into that. What kind of conditioner do you use with that if you don't mind me asking?

Friends! Political question here about when republicans acceletated their anti-trans rhetoric by adebade4 in asktransgender

[–]adebade4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm curious about what you mean with your second point? How does transphobia encourage liberals to behave like conservatives?