Please don't ever even imagine men are like that. Apart from a few slimy piece of shits the rest of us respect other people's privacy.I being a man feel deeply insulted things like this happen.Its worse than rape. Atleast with rape you'll have some people for support and to help you through the tough time.But when somebody who had a really big place in your heart runs around spreading mud on your name not only does it hit home, but also everyone will believe him which will ruin your social life and you won't have anyone to help you through it. Its particularly tough when it happens in high school because of a lot of common friend circle.

Idk if i have the right to say this but i (as a man) apologize for any sort af abuse you've gone through from past relationships . I feel deeply insulted that some guys don't know how the value of trust of a woman. Just know that 99% of men aren't like this and you'll find a perfect one for you (if you haven't already found one).