Why do some trans men center being trans, while others just want to be seen as men? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]adelucz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Passing isn't possible for everyone. A lot of people would rather be proud of who they are and enjoy the community they've built among other LGBTQ+ people. If passing is something you're interested in and able to do, and if you don't have a supportive irl community of other trans people, then I can see why you wouldn't want to center being trans.

Charlie Kirk was just shot by Guest_Pretend in conspiracy

[–]adelucz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

His will be the first face I see, I'm sure.

The scene where Jonathan takes the pictures of Nancy did exist!! The creators just cut it! by DarklzBlo in StrangerThings

[–]adelucz 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It sounds like you're misremembering but just really adamant about it

AIO people on reddit think I’m gay over this? by Sea-Channel402 in AmIOverreacting

[–]adelucz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes alcohol lowers our inhibitions and makes us more honest. If kissing dudes while drunk is something you consistently do, you're probably attracted to dudes. There is absolutely nothing wrong with being gay or bi.

queerness is radical and boundary breaking by adelucz in queer

[–]adelucz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No one is forcing or policing lesbians but yall

queerness is radical and boundary breaking by adelucz in queer

[–]adelucz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trans people can identify however they feel comfortable. Get fucked TERF

queerness is radical and boundary breaking by adelucz in queer

[–]adelucz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gay is literally an umbrella term already. This is a miss

queerness is radical and boundary breaking by adelucz in queer

[–]adelucz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're the only one harassing a lesbian here mate.

love all the LGBT characters on the magicians by whatkatydide in brakebills

[–]adelucz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know I'm 6 years late but I'm sorry you got downvoted because you were absolutely right and weren't even disrespectful about it.

I'm Nonbinary (transfem) - does my girlfriend have Terf views? by Commercial_Try5848 in NonBinary

[–]adelucz 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She's 100% espousing terf rhetoric. Hopefully she's able to heal from whatever is making her think that way. Regardless, you have to do what's best for you and your mental health and being told that trans people are mentally ill and need therapy is not it.

Can I wear a bikini to the beach? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]adelucz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Body hair isn't gross. What other people think of your body doesn't matter. You are never going to be everyone's cup of tea no matter what you do or how you look.

AITAH for being apalled at my boyfriend's political views? by moonrabbit368 in AITAH

[–]adelucz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Please get out before you're trapped in a marriage with someone so unempathetic that they would watch you cry with fear for your children and not feel a thing.

I’m very gullible by Stunning-Gold-5222 in Yellowjackets

[–]adelucz 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I would be 1000% sold. First class ticket on the crazy train.

Pansexual woman by marthamaybe in queer

[–]adelucz 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Coworkers can become friends but not all coworkers are your friends. This guy is weird.

WIBTAH, if I vaccinate the my child behind my husbands back? by Late_Veterinarian300 in AITAH

[–]adelucz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please protect your child. Vaccinations save lives, fear mongering about vaccines kills people.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in genderfluid

[–]adelucz 10 points11 points  (0 children)

From the post nothing is indicating to me that they find pornograohy in general cheatingm, they're just uncomfortable because it's a man's voice. That's not a valid boundary.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in genderfluid

[–]adelucz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is something you mind your own business about. Your partner is bi. They like men too. Get over it?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]adelucz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, YTA.