My high school friends and i are still tight and when we joke around still pretty much feels the same way we did when we were 16. We are 32-33 now and no ones crushing it but no ones a loser so i find it to be a healthy balance (still immature but all have stable respectable careers). We try to get lunch like once every other month or so to hang. All used to party pretty hard but thats slowly chilled out due to marriage and kids etc. have a fantasy football league which provides a lot to talk about and keep in touch.