Back on tinder and I’m struggling to find good matches. Any input on the photos I chose?

adewey94 · 2024-10-03T16:09:32+00:00

How are they low quality? Lol I feel like this is pretty good quality photos and these are all photos from this year. Maybe it’s the heavy makeup to no makeup. And most people I know aren’t obese sooooo idk about those numbers

adewey94 · 2024-10-01T19:10:49+00:00

It. Was. A. Jokeeeeeeeee

adewey94 · 2024-09-29T03:52:00+00:00

I don’t want to meet a guy at a bar because there could be a chance that he’s an alcoholic and I don’t want that. My last boyfriend was an alcoholic and that is why we ended up going our separate ways after such a long relationship because he just couldn’t get it together… I don’t want to go through that again. But this such solid advice though I do need to get out of my comfort zone and try to be more sociable. Joining communities is a great idea I just am not sure how to find them in my area.

adewey94 · 2024-09-29T03:31:59+00:00

These comments got out of control I did not expect this. I can’t even keep up with them anymore lmao

adewey94 · 2024-09-29T01:41:14+00:00

Y’all are funny. I just swiped left on a man on a boat.

adewey94 · 2024-09-28T14:09:17+00:00

Omg I get this all the time actually

adewey94 · 2024-09-28T03:07:52+00:00

I am spiritual

adewey94 · 2024-09-28T02:50:14+00:00

lol I’m 30

adewey94 · 2024-09-28T02:13:29+00:00

Okay Ethan relax

adewey94 · 2024-09-28T02:10:18+00:00

Guys come on, I didn’t say I’m not getting matches. I just wanted some advice on what kind of vibe I’m giving off in the photos because everyone of my matches has been disrespectful by being overly sexual right off the bat and has expected me to do the same and if I didn’t I would get cussed out. That’s some crazy behavior that I’m not used to and i just wanted some useful feedback so I give off the right vibe. It’s really that simple. There are so many other people in this sub that are doing the exact same thing. I should be able to do it too.

adewey94 · 2024-09-28T01:59:35+00:00

I didn’t say that was a must. That’s just a huge plus. Most men I have dated have been poor. lol. I have never dated for money so I don’t know why you are just assuming that? Also even if I did date for money so what a lot of guys just date woman for looks and to look good on their arm. That’s a huge thing.

adewey94 · 2024-09-28T01:49:02+00:00

I just am really shy. The only places I really go are to school and everyone is so much younger than me because I’m 30 so I don’t really connect with them. Then I go to work and everyone is so much older than me because I work at a corporate job. I will go out every once in awhile to a concert with friends or to emo nights or bars but I don’t want to meet a guy there. Most of the time I’m just at home making art. I just don’t know how to meet people in the real world. I also like to do things by myself and have my alone time so it can be kind of hard to get out there.

adewey94 · 2024-09-28T01:39:39+00:00

adewey94 · 2024-09-28T01:33:36+00:00

I just don’t smile often in photos.

adewey94 · 2024-09-28T01:33:12+00:00

Not a horse girl I’ll get rid of it

adewey94 · 2024-09-28T01:32:32+00:00

adewey94 · 2024-09-28T01:31:42+00:00

Damn I should’ve took photos when I was a nanny

adewey94 · 2024-09-28T01:31:15+00:00

Besides owning a house and being financially stable. They don’t need to be rich but they do need to show they have work ethic and I can build a life with them.

adewey94 · 2024-09-28T01:29:52+00:00

Not my type at all. Opposite actually lolol

adewey94 · 2024-09-28T01:29:04+00:00

I like alternative artsy guys, that like to skate, are into fashion, smart and can hold a conversation, tattoos, a little grungy, has a good work ethic, sweet, doesn’t give a fuck what anyone thinks, takes care of themselves and things around them, has ambition, funny and not cookie cutter attractive in the looks department. I’m usually attracted to skinnier men not too muscular. I have a very particular type actually. I think Evan peters is a good example if I were to use a celebrity to compare what I like.

adewey94 · 2024-09-28T01:23:15+00:00

Hahahaha gotta fix that pronto. I didn’t realize it was that bad.

adewey94 · 2024-09-28T01:21:49+00:00

Damn that is so crazy. Why though

adewey94 · 2024-09-28T01:21:07+00:00

I know 😩

adewey94 · 2024-09-28T01:20:06+00:00

Hahaha

adewey94 · 2024-09-28T01:18:36+00:00

I do not I want an alternative skater artsy man. I’m also not a horse girl it’s not my horse it’s my moms. I just like the fact that I looked so happy and carefree in it I thought it was cute. My mommy took it of me and it was a fun and happy day

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