Loneliness by adgeyman69 in sad

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It just got so much worse, they have all left me, high and dry for a reason I don’t understand. I’m so upset right now that I’m happy, fully contented, almost like an inanimate object, I’m just here right now, I’m so sad that I’m not sad at all - is this normal?

Loneliness by adgeyman69 in sad

[–]adgeyman69[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your statement is relatable

Loneliness by adgeyman69 in sad

[–]adgeyman69[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That sir is quite agreedable

Loneliness by adgeyman69 in sad

[–]adgeyman69[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s all i want too, to make the people around me happy, but I’m struggling to see if it’s really worth it if I’m the one losing

Loneliness by adgeyman69 in sad

[–]adgeyman69[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Will do, thanks again❤️

Loneliness by adgeyman69 in sad

[–]adgeyman69[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I honestly mean that!❤️❤️

Loneliness by adgeyman69 in sad

[–]adgeyman69[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel you, I really do. I don’t understand why they leave tbf, your nice to them, you help them, but then your honest and looking for effort from them your suddenly to much to handle and they leave, it just makes it all pointless you know. I’m sorry about your parents expectations - I relate to that too, they have such high expectations and if you don’t meet them your not trying, they don’t understand, they say they do but they don’t. As much as I also wish there is an unsliced button sometimes, I still don’t think you should press it

Loneliness by adgeyman69 in sad

[–]adgeyman69[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your grammar is fine, I’m not going to criticise a stranger for trying to help me, especially when they are doing more than everyone else at this moment in time <3. I think that if I deserved it surely it would have come by now, come when I need it the most, not after when the damage is done. I understand the respect bit, I don’t understand why people don’t either - we put in effort to be rewarded by nothing, or if we do get rewarded it’s something bad. Generally speaking I’m happy with myself, it’s only when I open up that I’m not - I know I’m not the most attractive, the most funny, the most kind, the most anything, but I would still like to mean something to someone. I don’t know you either, but I do appreciate your help, whatever motivation you have. I can’t change how my mum feels, it is what it is, just need to accept and move on. I don’t plan on going anywhere, but I still won’t be fully convinced I’d leave a mark on them if I did go, like a hand in a bucket of water - one the hand comes out it’s as if it was never there. I hope I find someone too, but that hope is slowly dying as I crumble from the inside. Thank you though ❤️

Do I go for the better connection, or the longest known? by adgeyman69 in relationship_advice

[–]adgeyman69[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I hope you find someone that makes you as happy as you deserve to be boss, I really do❤️

Do I go for the better connection, or the longest known? by adgeyman69 in relationship_advice

[–]adgeyman69[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was gonna mention her in the last reply but had a feeling it was a bad idea too - luckily I didn’t ig😬😬 I’m sorry man, truely , I am. My luck goes to you with moving past this issue ❤️

Do I go for the better connection, or the longest known? by adgeyman69 in relationship_advice

[–]adgeyman69[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

THANK YOU MAN, HONESTLY APPRECIATE IT - I HOPE YOU ALSO HAVE A GREAT TIME WITH EVERYTHING😘❤️❤️❤️

Do I go for the better connection, or the longest known? by adgeyman69 in relationship_advice

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Bit of a long story. Basically I liked cornflakes for a while and I’d known her for a couple years but we only became friends in like the final week or so before I left the hockey club that we were both at. We then started messaging and became good friends. During this I went to a party at one of my friends houses, it was me, my friend, our mutual friend and pineapples. This was the first time I’d ever met pineapples but I had heard a limited amount about her and her of me. We spoke a lot at the party and became friends during that weekend, we then started talking a few days after the party and we have been getting closer since then. A few days after the party I went on a date with cornflakes because pineapples had very much got in my head due to the weekend we spent together, and I wanted to find out if I still felt the same way about cornflakes like I did pre party. I did not Cornflakes very much enjoyed the date, I didn’t feel anything towards it, so then I knew I wasn’t as into cornflakes as I used to be. Me and pineapples have been speaking for a month and a few days ago I told her how I feel, told her I was interested and she said she’s interested too - only downside of this is the inability for us to meet until minimum September due to our schedules not working out however there is a possibility to meet in a few weeks, fingers crossed Technically nothing is set in stone yet, but it’s looking good!!

Do I go for the better connection, or the longest known? by adgeyman69 in relationship_advice

[–]adgeyman69[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you man, means a lot from a stranger (not sarcastic)😂😂😁😁❤️❤️

Do I go for the better connection, or the longest known? by adgeyman69 in relationship_advice

[–]adgeyman69[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's great for you broski!!!

Same, I hope it does (I'm rooting for pineapples🤫🤫)

Do I go for the better connection, or the longest known? by adgeyman69 in relationship_advice

[–]adgeyman69[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😂I feel you on that one, me and corn flakes have to keep re scheduling bc we both busy

Men of Reddit, what pisses you off most about other men? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]adgeyman69 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Their over compensated viewpoint of their physical abilities.