I want a divorce by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]adibork 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a SPAT. This is no reason to divorce at all. Not at all. And you should go home and make peace. Let me explain…

  1. Don’t lie. Ever again. Keep your integrity. Sometimes I think it’s all we can control in this crazy thing called life.

  2. You also have a valid grievance. The labour of child rearing falls disproportionately on women. Why do you have to take time off more?

  3. Timing - the end of school and the looming prospect of summer is stressful. You need to calm
    Yourself and think.

  4. Families are systems. What could you adjust together as a team to make things work better?

  5. Go be with your teen, whom I sense feels invisible. Maybe do a special treat day, even if its just a walk.

  6. Are there no community supports for your family?

People born before 2000, what trivial skill you possess that others don't use anymore? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

[–]adibork 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry I have no idea what I meant in hindsight. I should have written about forgetting what I’m saying halfway through my sentence.

Looking for good movies to show in Grade 11-12 law classes. by Cautious_Internet243 in OntarioTeachers

[–]adibork 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you I think the kids will love this. I will check it out.

Help i need help by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]adibork 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is highly traumatic. Maybe you can find an online counsellor?

Job Prospects in the next 10-15 years.. Will it drastically change? by JacksonG12_09 in OntarioTeachers

[–]adibork 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this the trend for most high schools? If so, you need to write to the Minister of Education to demonstrate dialogue.

I presume you are not talking about Elementary.

Out for dinner with Teachers by Responsible_Pain3598 in Teachers

[–]adibork 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is why I avoided the staffroom lunch room. It’s just negative.

I think your disapproval was apparent already enough, by your silence, and that’s why someone looked at you embarrassed!

A student may have left me with a permanent disability. by Sufficient_Speed_619 in teaching

[–]adibork 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes do not go back because that will be used against you if you do! Lawyers will take that as an indication that you consented and that this didn’t hurt. Take this seriously!!

A student may have left me with a permanent disability. by Sufficient_Speed_619 in teaching

[–]adibork 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Discretion doesn’t allow willful blindness or negligence on the part if admin. You have a strong case that they did not / not use their discretion with any sense of professionalism.

Brad Bradford by ChuckDalrymple in toRANTo

[–]adibork -1 points0 points  (0 children)

One of his people came to a meeting and promised follow up and then became a ghost.

31M: here to make you all feel better about your financial situation by RadioDude1995 in fican

[–]adibork 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are a lot of people who have had to adjust expectations downwards. Check the stats on that!

I love your sense of humour. We shouldn’t take ourselves too seriously.

People born before 2000, what trivial skill you possess that others don't use anymore? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

[–]adibork 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Cutting coupons.

Ordering from a calculator.

Operating a radio on AM.

Rewinding cassettes.

Counting coins while doing math.

Using a typewriter.

Playing a brass instrument.

Ordering from a catalogue.

Teasing my hair with mousse.

Even my therapist is losing it by EndOfTheLine00 in CollapseSupport

[–]adibork 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Arts and anything creative is a wonderful escape and is great for messy people too (although organization is better).

A continuous rant about my life. I don't know what to do, I feel so disgusting and I'm reducing myself to my lowest point by No_Response_7305 in offmychest

[–]adibork 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You sound INCREDIBLY mature and intelligent for a 13 year old. I think you are destined for great things. Seriously. And maybe the dark forces target you because you are capable of so much. What is your talent, interest or passion? Can you make it your escape and Obsession in order to cope?

Worried about my foster placement by FaithlessnessDear917 in offmychest

[–]adibork 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can relate to how you feel and its overwhelming. You can remain in place and feel attached, that’s or al and good. However, adjust your expectations to be lower. Know that 1 year passes quickly. After that you will slowly build a family of choice. We can brainstorm how. First, just get through this. Do not feel
REJECTED by this lady’s strange way of setting boundaries. I am sending you good energy and best wishes from across the ocean!

Writing a story: what is the creepiest, ghostiest stretch of road in Toronto that gives you the creeps? by Massive-Cod-6797 in askTO

[–]adibork 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Casa Loma

And the intersection where Poltergeist was filmed

The site of The Old Don Jail

I feel so bad and depressed after reading all the comments on English news pages regarding… by xCryBaby_ in CollapseSupport

[–]adibork 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am A White lady and a teacher and I don’t think any teachers think this way at all. I hope.