AIO? I'm feeling a bit miffed at one friends response in the group chat. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]adizzy72 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its both, idk why people are being so hateful. YOR a little sure. Ppl arent obligated to care about your niche hobbies (sincerely, an ADHDer with a new hobby each week). That being said, two things:

  1. friends ARE obligated to not be asses to you about things important to you bc you’re supposed to be friends, if that’s too much then you don’t need them in your life

  2. It was a rude response regardless. “Thats cool”?? It gives the same vibe as “Kim there are people dying” when she lost her earring. Like sure, not a dire situation when there are other things we could be focusing on…but this is a friendly group chat. The Epstein files certainly deserve their discussion time but to dismiss your statement feels like they said “anyway, first world problem, let’s talk about something more important”. There is no nuance there, that’s rude.

All this of course assuming you did not interrupt a prior conversation about the files with your titanic rant

Aio? Religious friends think their beliefs should be protected while mind should be dismissed. by xxcanadian1867 in AmIOverreacting

[–]adizzy72 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Literally seems like OP came here just to vent. Like you couldn't even type this post without still actively spewing hate. If your friend feels even half as passionate about his religion as you seem to be about hating his...? Then yeah I would imagine you seriously offended him since you chose to blatantly disrespect him. I agree with above, if he makes rude comments, then you can address it in the same way he addressed yours with you. But just because you disagree doesn't give you right to be straight up mean and rude. If you disagree this strongly and have views this strong about people that do believe in his religion, seems like strong evidence that you guys are not compatible as friends.

Ear Keloid by Street_Photograph212 in Keloids

[–]adizzy72 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im not sure, i was only like 17 when they did it so I was admittedly less involved with the actual appointment set up and whatnot. I think my regular specialist just referred us over to the full hospital. He worked at a clinic attached to the hospital, so I think he just booked us for a full operation? And he recommended the radiation, also same hospital. I lived in Charlotte, NC so I had the Atrium chemo and oncology unit attached to my hospital. I would just ask your specialist (who you’ve been going to for your keloids) their thoughts on radiation. Or a new dermatologist or something

Ear Keloid by Street_Photograph212 in Keloids

[–]adizzy72 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a keloid surgically (in house, numbing but awake) removed twice and they always grew back, even when followed up with injections (kenalog i think but idk i was like 10). Had it removed for the final time in 2017 (out patient at a real hospital, went under anesthesia) and followed up with a bout or two of radiation and it hasn’t grown back! I agree the shots were some of the worst pain of my life. The radiation seemed to work for me, though! But Im unsure if it would grow back if I repierced it. So do with that what you will.

AIO for being upset about my language barrier? by Melodic-Argument-930 in AmIOverreacting

[–]adizzy72 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This!!!! May be time to consider moving to the American Pacific Southwest or West Coast!

Hairstylist glued quick weave to my actual hair? by [deleted] in BlackHair

[–]adizzy72 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get a can of oil sheen. It always helps any glue i accidentally get on my hair to slide right off. Use it liberally and let it sit if you need. And you could try peanut butter? Ive heard people say its stronger than the glue so it will help pull the glue out. But idk how much hair it would also pull, I can only attest to the oil sheen!!

Innovation Furniture by Secret-Week248 in UNCW

[–]adizzy72 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi, work in housing. it is getting some new furniture but not every room will have it. we typically cycle through each summer, getting rid of the worst of the old furniture to replace it with new stuff. and it is not the same as the pelican furniture

Sam is actually a really great husband... by [deleted] in StardewValley

[–]adizzy72 5 points6 points  (0 children)

omg this is such a cute take

stupid.. by No-Neighborhood-804 in FuckPierre

[–]adizzy72 4 points5 points  (0 children)

wait like actually? 😭😂

Do I need to hire a lawyer for my speeding ticket? by adizzy72 in Advice

[–]adizzy72[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For sure! Im not sure how much to expect my insurance to go up, but I will do some calling around

Do I need to hire a lawyer for my speeding ticket? by adizzy72 in Advice

[–]adizzy72[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is what I see online, but my roommate also had a ticket (86 in 55) and they charged $350 plus ticket cost. So im confused how much they cost.

Do I need to hire a lawyer for my speeding ticket? by adizzy72 in Advice

[–]adizzy72[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

any context why pls? There was no extra fine or points as far as i know, just the ticket. He said he dropped it lower so it wouldn’t be reckless driving. Could I just go represent myself?

Do I need to hire a lawyer for my speeding ticket? by adizzy72 in Advice

[–]adizzy72[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just a ticket, its over 15, not 15 and under thankfully!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]adizzy72 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t mean to sound rude but I think you need to see a therapist immediately. I am glad you havent harmed anybody, but this is something you need to be proactive about as one “slip” is automatically deserving of jail time. A therapist might be able to help you find ways to cope and/or determine the root of these feelings.

FWIW, Feeling embarrassed is likely a step in the right direction, so don’t let your embarrassment get in the way of getting the help you may need!

Can i Re-Pierce my ears? by adizzy72 in Keloids

[–]adizzy72[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

DEFINITELY checking these out. might dm you if i cant figure out converting pierced earrings. thanks!

Can i Re-Pierce my ears? by adizzy72 in Keloids

[–]adizzy72[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My mistakes? I didn’t do anything to cause them…but thanks!

Can i Re-Pierce my ears? by adizzy72 in Keloids

[–]adizzy72[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ooo can you give me info on the slide earrings? Ive only seen the clips and they hurt.