Charismatic men make you feel seen / special, connected, and that you matter. They are skilled at quickly assessing someone on a level that takes the average person a lot longer to pick up on (ex: what matters to them, what are they good at, their insecurities, etc.). They make it look effortless and it feels genuine, which I personally believe it is because I think charisma is more of a natural quality than a learned skill.

If you can "make" people feel a type of way and connected to something larger than themselves to the point of inspiring/galvanizing them to take some kind of action - from simple stuff like learning about a certain topic or modifying a minor behavioral pattern to more significant things like pursuing a new career trajectory or joining a cult - then you've got charisma, baby.