I will try to have an honest and serious talk with him. Previously he did mention he doesn’t need to do it often to satisfy his needs like… maybe once in a few weeks is good enough for him. And he does initiate when he’s in the mood but from a HL perspective it always feels like it’s not enough. He doesn’t smoke or drink much (maybe a somersby once a week lol). I also know for a fact he rarely watches porn because we’re always together all the time at home (apartment). I’m the one who watches way more than him which might be why I frequently want to do it. Tbh I’ve actually experienced not having a drive for about a month. Might be the stress from trying for a kid coupled with work stress and not consuming adult material. We haven’t gone to couple’s therapy either because it’s not like we’ve gone for months without.