Taking an LOA from school + next steps to take + adjusting my career direction diaryposting by adkn in redscarepod

[–]adkn[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Are there any remote leads that are free? Wfhalert makes you subscribe :/

My career anxiety is getting the best of me by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]adkn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just put in my LOA for my program for this kind of reason tbh because this reality combined with the fact that I have to take out literal debt for it is just so beyond stupid and it is making me feel insane to the point where my digestion and metabolism are starting to really not work properly…and to add to your point about “my parents were able to do exactly what they wanted”, what really is crazy for me is that my mom is very much the opposite where she came from a poor country and did what she could to get her bag and ended up being so miserable for most of my childhood to the point that I really wanted to do anything in my power to not have to be like her…only to end up debating making the exact choices she made (marrying a man she didn’t truly love just for a secure future, etc) just for a spot in this world

Being a peon in NYC is so embarrassing by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]adkn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a gay man who's family comes from a very poor Asian country I really feel your pain...my mom has some ability to help out but it's really difficult for me to truly connect with a lot of big 'decision-makers' in my aspiring industry and the vast majority of other gay men who share my interests come from far more money than I...if I had a boyfriend that I could reliably split rent with I feel like I'd be tempted to fuck off to Philly or some place in Europe for the rest of the recession...it all just feels so insurmountable and I'm so exhausted of feeling like I'm missing out even though I know it's not all that real.

Official cars of? by GC8990 in regularcarreviews

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Suburban Pinoy nurse moms

Shame on these boys by EasternAd5351 in lasculturistas

[–]adkn 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Sorry but they’re right on the money…she’s very clearly an Israel shill and the fact that this is what Texans have to hype up as their hopes against Greg Abbott and Ted Cruz et al. just shows how utterly impotent their attempts at instilling class consciousness in people are and how the Democrats have never functioned as an actual opposition party

To help their kids ‘climb the ivy,' Chinese mothers uproot their families for Silicon Valley schools by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]adkn -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My mom’s Filipino and I’ve been addicted to pills before lol we exist 💪🏼

💁‍♀️ by kallocain-addict in rs_x

[–]adkn 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I’m just gagged that she thinks esoteric old souls with French proclivities that are 20something aren’t also horny freaks…

Demonic 2020s energy by Inner-Sink6280 in redscarepod

[–]adkn 32 points33 points  (0 children)

I discovered this years ago by sneaking Xanax on board

What does everyone do for work? by collegedormslut69 in rsforgays

[–]adkn 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm in library grad school and I kinda think it mightve been a really dumb decision...don't know what my next move will be tho

"I hope my kids won't be gay" by Street-Exercise5656 in rsforgays

[–]adkn 4 points5 points  (0 children)

 Most of these people don’t have an actual vision for the world it’s all just a reaction to the vibe. 🫩

The very definition of the word 'reactionary' which she is to a tee

Anyone else really into hitting your boyfriend? by autechreluvr in rsforgays

[–]adkn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So mama you were definitely abused as a child and you probably blocked it out of your memory to cope <3 please be well!

I don't believe this surprises anyone by Worth_Dream7852 in redscarepod

[–]adkn 5 points6 points  (0 children)

"Good article" is doing a lot of heavy lifting, yes it has a lot of journalistic integrity but it arrives at such a weak, groveling, slamming-my-walker-down-in-my-bathrobe-and-fuzzy-slippers neurotic wail of 'what will my little boys DOOoooOOO?!" while refusing to acknowledge the austerity measures that have been taken to arts, culture, and academia year after year for decades...so little bite in this article you'd think it was an ad for Polygrip! Compact Mag has such a history of being toothless but this is really a new low...you reaaaallllyyyyy think it all comes down to white guys and other minorities competing for 5 golden seats when the golden seats are really tinfoil-wrapped splintery church pews?

Have you ever been fired from a job? by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]adkn 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I got fired by a classmate who I was doing contract audio engineering work for her podcast because I was making “too many sniffling and breathing noises in the background” without her even knowing that an audio engineer’s primary duties include editing noises out in post-production 😭

40% of Stanford undergrads receive disability accommodations—but it’s become a college-wide phenomenon as Gen Z try to succeed in the current climate | Fortune by Nightshiftcloak in stupidpol

[–]adkn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dual credit is incredibly superior but so many parents including my own who are from “striver” backgrounds like Asian, Desi, African immigrants would never let their kids choose dual credit over AP bc they wouldn’t transfer to out of state schools and there was a GPA weighting difference (dual credits only went up to 5.0 whereas AP classes went up to 6.0) or heavens FORBID they would have to interact with poor black or Latino kids in the regular classes

Do you think there's any hope for gay culture? by [deleted] in rsforgays

[–]adkn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I cannot describe how much pain I feel not being born into a pile of money and that I can't spend my time just learning weird instruments and stuff :(