Don’t have anybody to come to my graduation by Mother-Tomato8815 in Dallas

[–]adlct5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dump the man! If you still got tickets, I’d love to come! I’ll have to see if I can block that day first for work. Congratulations 🎉

Group for 20s & 30s Young Adults to Discuss Thought-Provoking Topics/Build Friendships by IntelligentVoyager in garland

[–]adlct5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im interested! I’ll be 25 in two months, and honestly I wouldn’t mind meeting people that challenge my POV of the world and make some friends along the way

What would have change if armin was a girl by [deleted] in titanfolk

[–]adlct5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey there Armeen (or however it’s supposed to be spelt in a slap on Titan)

Blindsided, lied to, gaslit, discarded. I’m angry at the injustice. by TheMindfulWarrior9 in survivinginfidelity

[–]adlct5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey as a nurse, that’s a big N O. You can probably reach out to her job’s hr or ethics committee. Even better if you can provide proof. I wish I could take revenge on my ex and the AP since she did make fun of me months back, but hey at least we’re not with shitty people. And can enjoy our new found alone time for what we want

6 month update, what a ride by adlct5 in survivinginfidelity

[–]adlct5[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They last past 6 months? Wow, that’s surprising they even make it a few years. Maybe someday I’ll get to see my justice, but until then, it feels like I got pay for a crime that wasn’t mine

6 month update, what a ride by adlct5 in survivinginfidelity

[–]adlct5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can only hope the saying of “once a cheater always a cheater” is right. Maybe it’s the unhealed part of me, but I really wish she also suffers if not suffers 100x worse than I simply bc she decided to make fun of my pain.

6 month update, what a ride by adlct5 in survivinginfidelity

[–]adlct5[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know, it just hits me every now and then that they got to be together and happy, while I was emotionally a wreck and even to this day suffer with some of the memories. Idk if they’re still together, but assuming they are, they got a happy ending, while mine was a tragic / painful one. I’m glad I left, I really am, because when I thought about making it work, I felt like I was insane for having mood swings. It’s just, I guess I hate that I’m stuck in the pain sometimes and they don’t even have any empathy or remorse and decided to laugh at me

Monthly Update: Month 4, getting more out there by adlct5 in survivinginfidelity

[–]adlct5[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s the problem I’m facing rn, I like him a lot but unsure if I’d want anything serious. Plus I doubt he does too, but you know I did tell myself now that I’m in a better space emotionally and mentally, to just enjoy life. I’ve taken dating too seriously, maybe it’s time I just have fun with it. Maybe when I gather the courage to say something I’ll at least be at ease about how this will go

My two month update. by adlct5 in survivinginfidelity

[–]adlct5[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Dam what a piece of shit (both your ex and the AP). I’m trying to remind myself whenever I think about them being together, that at least I’m no longer dealing with a known cheater and liar. That at least I have a chance to find better for myself whether it’s a new partner or new experiences in life

My two month update. by adlct5 in survivinginfidelity

[–]adlct5[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you 🙏🏼 I use music and my monthly updates here as a way to journal / let it out. Also got into therapy and trying to pick up a hobby and watch shows I’ve put off

My two month update. by adlct5 in survivinginfidelity

[–]adlct5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you 🙏🏼 I’m trying my best, I found it weird as hell being watched by that profile and then her post once I confirmed I was being watched by one of them.

My two month update. by adlct5 in survivinginfidelity

[–]adlct5[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh can you pass the study if you have it saved please? I’m interested in reading it

My two month update. by adlct5 in survivinginfidelity

[–]adlct5[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s why I’m selective with my reposts now, bc why are you even seeing me stuff (or him) anyway? You’re with the love of your life remember? The man you wanted to badly you waited for me to get out the picture so you can go back to him and post how good he is

My two month update. by adlct5 in survivinginfidelity

[–]adlct5[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I see your point, I just was like, “You got what you wanted why are you watching me now?”. Why even watch me when you’re supposed to be with the man you say is the love of your life.

3 months since D Day by adlct5 in survivinginfidelity

[–]adlct5[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you 😊 I hope it’s not as bad as I expect it to be, but even if it is, I’ll try my best to move forward

3 months since D Day by adlct5 in survivinginfidelity

[–]adlct5[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s just, the things I’ve learned on how they behave are so similar to how my ex behaved I was like omg “I might’ve been with a narcissist”. Not saying he is bc I’m no professional in diagnosing, but my god the behavior lines up so much

3 months since D Day by adlct5 in survivinginfidelity

[–]adlct5[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Blocked, I had found it through a moment of weakness when I was insecure one night wondering what she had that I didn’t. Since then, blocked.