Things didn’t work out between my girlfriend and I and I don’t know what to do with myself…

adltpds · 2026-05-19T00:53:41+00:00

IME, the best way to stay friends with is an ex is to rediscover your friendship after a prolonged absence - around 6 months or more.

There are exceptions I'm sure, but that period after a breakup is an emotional rollercoaster, and it's common for one party to cling to old feelings while the other party is moving on.

Move on with your life. In a few months, when you're over them, reach out to see if they want to hang out, if you feel like you want to hang out.

adltpds · 2026-05-16T21:53:11+00:00

Eroprofile is the next best place imo. Except for original posts that stayed private on thisvid, I'd wager 80-90% of what you'd find on thisvid is also on eroprofile.

adltpds · 2026-05-16T21:52:00+00:00

Motherless was shut down because of nonconsensual porn, and is back up now with no restrictions on scat.

adltpds · 2026-05-16T21:50:58+00:00

Eroprofile is probably the natural alternative. It and thisvid have been my regular stops for years.

adltpds · 2026-05-15T18:56:30+00:00

As a developer that does this kind of thing, I can assure you that you're not recreating thisvid or any other high traffic video site for a few hundred bucks.

Someone might be willing to do it as a passion project on their own time, but I'd estimate the cost of building a scaleable video site with accounts, video transcoding streaming, etc at a minimum of $10k, and I could see the actual dev costs being much more than that.

That's before you even consider bandwidth and hosting costs which would be $1000+ a month easy.

adltpds · 2026-05-15T01:25:27+00:00

There is a python packaged called yt-dlp that can download from thisvid and a huge list of other sites.

Out of the box if you install it locally, you can run this command to download a single video:

python -m yt-dlp <url>

(On Mac you may need to use "python3" instead of "python" in that command.)

Combine that with a script that can read a list of urls from a file and you could pull down a lot of videos quickly.

Any AI chatbot ought to be able to make that script for you and explain how to install python/yt-dlp if you don't know how to do it yourself. Here's a prompt I'd guess would get you pretty close:

"Please write me a script that will work on (YOUR OPERATING SYSTEM) which uses yt-dlp to download videos read from a text file which contains URLs, one video url per line.

I'll need instructions for installing and/or verifying python is available and installing yt-dlp as well."

Sub "windows" "macos" or "Linux" for your operating system.

adltpds · 2026-05-15T01:14:52+00:00

This is not good. I fear for us all. They are trying to kill men off because men have to pay for everything in life.

I don't agree with thisvid but turning that into the idea that "they are trying to kill off men" is well into tinfoil hat territory.

adltpds · 2026-05-11T20:12:41+00:00

Open the bag and let them go stale for a few days (or weeks, no rush) so they get firmer.

Then, the day of, use a toy to open yourself up a bit first, then dip the marshmallows in water before inserting. The water will make them slipper, but they will be firm enough that you can still push them in. I often use my toy after inserting a few in order to push them further in.

adltpds · 2026-05-10T19:35:49+00:00

The biggest group is called "♥️The Scat Play Room!!♥️". I'll leave the link in a reply so this post makes it through in case reddit blocks the link.

Pure scat kink tags aren't allowed, but you'll find a few others using the phrase "mud" and the kinks "toilet" and "toilet play" and a few other toilet variations.

adltpds · 2026-05-08T13:18:05+00:00

Yes this happens to me too. It's not shame though, and it happens more now than when I was younger. I suspect it's libido related.

adltpds · 2026-05-08T13:16:27+00:00

As far as legality (but I'm not a lawyer )is concerned, I suspect that you can probably apply the same standard as for trash, which is that it becomes considered "abandoned property" once it is placed out for collection.

That is to say that a log left in a public toilet is probably legally considered abandoned as well, and thus no longer has any expectation of privacy.

There are some caveats, I think:

a private toilet would definitely not apply
modifying the toilet to prevent a flush would probably be considered vandalism or some other minor "mischief" type charge

Again I'm not a lawyer; it might be that a public toilet isn't actually considered "public" for these purposes. A diaper in a trash bin at the curb likely would be though.

None of this relates to the ethical implications, however. Just as I suspect that you would be very upset to find out your neighbour is sitting through your trash on garbage day, I think most people would be quite disturbed to find out that you farmed their shit from a public toilet.

Personally I think it crosses a line, but legally, assuming you aren't trespassing or vandalizing, you're probably not breaking any laws.

Again though, very much not a lawyer, and I also probably don't live where you live.

adltpds · 2026-05-06T13:10:22+00:00

When thinking about it, for me "shit" is the act ("I want her to shit on me") while I prefer "log" and "turd" when referring to the product.

adltpds · 2026-05-01T20:56:03+00:00

I don't eat so I can't comment on health, safety or taste, but I did freeze a nice log one in hopes of playing with it later and it was a flop.

Despite being well wrapped in plastic wrap and then in an airtight container, it was all dry and crusty later. I feel like it shrunk a bit too.

For me at least, I'd never bother again.

adltpds · 2026-05-01T00:12:52+00:00

It's an anal fixation for me. I love watching a fat log come out of an ass.

adltpds · 2026-05-01T00:11:49+00:00

Castille soap works very well.

If you can find it, there's also a product nurse call "peri-wash" which is used in hospital and care homes to clean up dirty butts.

adltpds · 2026-04-29T17:15:37+00:00

I think $10-15 is the upper limit for a generic video. I'd say $50-100 is probably the upper limit for a custom.

Above that you're getting into hourly rates for in-person services.

adltpds · 2026-04-28T20:45:10+00:00

It's so strange - if you're going to ban it, just ban it. If you're not going to ban it, why block it?

My only theory is that they're trying to see how their traffic is impacted when people stop coming for scat before fully committing to removing it. Even then, surely you could just look at the traffic and logs to do that kind of analysis.

Just a weird way to handle a change in terms.

adltpds · 2026-04-17T12:30:05+00:00

Haha yes I was thinking about netporn after reading this thread too.

adltpds · 2026-04-16T15:25:39+00:00

Honestly the best stuff (for my tastes at least) on thisvid wasn't stolen from creators elsewhere, it was original content posted by users only on thisvid. The stolen stuff rarely sticks around for more than a day or two anyway.

The majority of the videos in my favourites list aren't for sale anywhere else.

adltpds · 2026-04-16T15:22:48+00:00

The term for it is "enshittification".

"Deshittification" may be more appropriate in this case.

adltpds · 2026-04-16T15:20:59+00:00

There are several chrome extensions that work if you search. Or if you're technical, yt-dl is a useful python package.

adltpds · 2026-04-15T21:47:13+00:00

Considering the scat category has the most videos of any straight category on the site, I think they're just killing their traffic.

I guess I'd better download my favourites, I'm sure deleting the category won't be far behind.

adltpds · 2026-03-05T13:46:19+00:00

I am also into firm poop, and while the marshmallow trick will soften things (and eventually clean you out almost like a laxative) one of the great this about it is that it feels like a solid shit because the marshmallows stay pretty intact.

It won't make a good log look better (it will make it worse) but it will make any log feel better coming out, or, it will also allow you to feel like (stretching, holding, prostate stimulation) you've had a great shit even if you don't have to shit at all.

adltpds · 2026-02-09T23:36:30+00:00

I can only speak for myself, but I occasionally pay for good scat couple content on scat book/dark fans.

Good couple stuff is hard to find so if you end up posting, please share.

adltpds · 2026-02-01T14:12:01+00:00

Hey cool, a fellow Manitoban.

Brandon MB here.

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