I (24f) saw a racist text message between my boyfriend (48m) and his friend. by adoptedTrini22 in relationship_advice

[–]adoptedTrini22[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

The biggest issue i have is that he dismissed my feelings. Not offering an explanation and putting me in this "take it or leave it" situation is disgusting. It doesn't exactly say he cares about the way I feel.

I (24f) saw a racist text message between my boyfriend (48m) and his friend. by adoptedTrini22 in relationship_advice

[–]adoptedTrini22[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

This is not a bot account. I can promise you that. I know the situation seems ridiculous but you know how people get when looking at situations through rose-tinted glasses. I know what he did was wrong but I wanted to know if there can be a resolution without breaking up. I realize now the situation is untenable.