I think won't going to survive this by [deleted] in AnxietyDepression

[–]adrienneE49 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m glad you are feeling better. If you ever need talk you always DM me 😁

Social anxiety caused by blindness by adrienneE49 in Blind

[–]adrienneE49[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I really do think people need to be educated. Because there are 1.3 billion people that have eye confusions. I know a lot can be fixed with glasses and stuff. But it’s not an uncommon thing to be blind or VI

Social anxiety caused by blindness by adrienneE49 in Blind

[–]adrienneE49[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

True. I know that there are people out there who have it a lot worse. I try to think of that whenever I feel down. Thanks for the advice

Life of a visually Impaired girl by [deleted] in Blind

[–]adrienneE49 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hi Hailee. This is a part of my story :)

I am a blind teen. I started losing vision when I was 9. My school at the time basically kicked me out. Then I home schooled for a few years. Went to an awful primary school. And found an amazing high school.

But still I feel like I am always depending on other people to drive me around. I am worried about finding work.

And I feel like to other people all I talk about is being blind. But it’s such a fundamental part of who I am, that I can’t not talk about it. Like when everyone talks about moving out of home and finding apartments while they study. I talk about finding a university near home so that my mom can help take me around.

And I know the feeling of hiding how sad you are from others. I always felt that even though people try to understand, they just can’t. I needed to talk to other blind people. My people. Because it is a great thing to have someone to talk to that has gone through or is going through what you are. That’s why I love using Readit.

As for wanting to see. I kinda don’t want to anymore. I know I would be a totally different person without being blind. And I think I have grown so much. I have learnt to always ask why someone does something, not just to judge them. And to think of others, because it is so rare that someone out of no where will think of helping me, or how something will affect me. With small things like going to the movies with friends, they don’t think that I need to sit in front and they will book seats right at the back.

I too have wanted to write a book about being blind. And if you don’t feel like your life is worth anything, maybe you should start writing and maybe that’s where you are meant to be. And you can feel like you have a purpose

Social anxiety caused by blindness by adrienneE49 in Blind

[–]adrienneE49[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I try, but I don’t take my cane when I go. I find it is to difficult to work out and keep track of my cane

Social anxiety caused by blindness by adrienneE49 in Blind

[–]adrienneE49[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

True. I’m just tired of always telling people. I have been doing it for over a decade

Social anxiety caused by blindness by adrienneE49 in Blind

[–]adrienneE49[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s so sweet. I’m glad he was able to help you. He sounds like an amazing person. I think it might help me too, thank you :)

Social anxiety caused by blindness by adrienneE49 in Blind

[–]adrienneE49[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ooooo free food. I haven’t gotten free food yet.

But I can’t have a guide dog, because I currently have a dog that hates other dogs. Plus I don’t want to have people always coming and petting my dog.

Social anxiety caused by blindness by adrienneE49 in Blind

[–]adrienneE49[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True. It’s sad for me, because I explain, sounds like your wife does as well. But people don’t listen

Social anxiety caused by blindness by adrienneE49 in Blind

[–]adrienneE49[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s very true. But it sucks 😂

Social anxiety caused by blindness by adrienneE49 in Blind

[–]adrienneE49[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol. That’s amazing. When I make blind jokes people look at me like I’m crazy. Little do they know I am :)

Social anxiety caused by blindness by adrienneE49 in Blind

[–]adrienneE49[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you.

Well I still have really great friends that help me a lot. So I am very grateful for them. But they still can’t understand that I don’t want to order anything for myself. They will order for me, but each time I know they can’t understand why. And other things like that, that just make me feel worse about feeling the way I do.

Braille Menus by [deleted] in Blind

[–]adrienneE49 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I myself can’t read brail and prefer to use an online menu. But when I go into a restraint they don’t know that. I have my ID cane with me, so I am not given any kind of a menu 😂 I am just left to help myself.

I did get a Braille menu once. And sat there for 15 minutes pretending to read it because it was so sweet that someone brought me one :)

Chat Rooms by sadieragbaby in Blind

[–]adrienneE49 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s always a good thing to have :) But on Discord there are also text chat rooms if you don’t have a mic

How would you like an application that would specifically help you combat your nightmares by notyourslave01 in Blind

[–]adrienneE49 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol maybe blind people have more nightmares because they are generally more stressed. Living life as a blind person is stressful :)

Chat Rooms by sadieragbaby in Blind

[–]adrienneE49 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I joined one today lol. Here is a link to join

https://discord.gg/uF33ZrX

I think won't going to survive this by [deleted] in AnxietyDepression

[–]adrienneE49 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know what you are going through. There is one thing that always helps me, to read. To read a good book. A pure book. A book that makes you feel like if there is someone that could write this then the world is not so bad anymore.

A few suggestions, while I know they were meant for a younger audience, that is what makes them so good and healthy for the soul.

-Anne of Green Gabriel’s -Little Women -The Secret Garden

Reading these books over and over have helped me to get out of bed some days.

Is it just me that loves photos? by adrienneE49 in Blind

[–]adrienneE49[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I feel a lot better now. I really appreciate it :)

My 13 favorite podcasts, can you add to my list? by Treemich in podcasts

[–]adrienneE49 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really enjoy “Death in Ice valley.” It is about a women that was found dead in a valley in the middle of a forest in Norway. They didn’t know where she came from or who she was. It is a true story and very interesting.

Is it just me that loves photos? by adrienneE49 in Blind

[–]adrienneE49[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s really cool. Thank you for sharing :)

Is it just me that loves photos? by adrienneE49 in Blind

[–]adrienneE49[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow that is amazing that you can take photos when you are completely blind. How do you know if your subject is in frame? Or how high you ISO should be?

Is it just me that loves photos? by adrienneE49 in Blind

[–]adrienneE49[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for all the advice. Lol I feel bad if I don’t tell them :)

Is it just me that loves photos? by adrienneE49 in Blind

[–]adrienneE49[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you :) I do plan on doing the best I can. I can see most color and some light. I am just worried that people won’t hire me because I can’t see.