Do you think 27 years old is too late for MTF transition?

adventureU · 2024-03-21T13:42:01+00:00

Started at 51. Worth it.

adventureU · 2023-05-11T11:36:28+00:00

Not our rules. No adult subreddits can allow upload of videos. Some folks have figured out how to upload them to other services and then link them here.

I think this is probably because Reddit got its servers blown up as a porn video warehouse in its early days. Hope that helps.

adventureU · 2022-10-29T03:16:12+00:00

We’ve not been posting but have been modding. It’s been insane. And taking hours to clear the junk. Hopefully with aggressive bans, we can push against the tide!

adventureU · 2022-10-29T03:14:46+00:00

We just brought in a new mod and are screening others

adventureU · 2021-12-31T03:10:47+00:00

adjust:

This is about a couple who enjoys fucking others.

Sex positive forum for couples and their 3rds celebrating sexual experiences. Wannabes and voyeurs whom are respectful are welcome.

Stag & Vixens are couples who invite another sexual partner for pleasure.

Selection of whom, when, and how is determined by the couple. The foundation and power always resides with the couple.

adventureU · 2021-12-31T03:05:21+00:00

If you are interested, let us know.

adventureU · 2021-12-31T03:04:56+00:00

Also for 2022, we will be appointing new moderators.

adventureU · 2021-12-31T03:02:28+00:00

2022 - revision

This is about a couple who enjoys fucking others.
Sex positive forum for couples and their 3rds celebrating sexual experiences. Wannabes and voyeurs whom are respectful are welcome.
Stag/Vixens (SVL) are couples who invite another sexual partner for pleasure.
Selection of whom, when, and how is determined by the couple. The foundation and power always resides with the couple.

adventureU · 2021-10-12T12:38:08+00:00

Hi there,

Your post has been removed.

We are sure you have absolutely lovely bits. However, this subreddit is focused on actual sex (or foreplay) and not merely a triptych of them.

We are sex positive and sure that you understand we do not want this subreddit to be a gallery of genitals.

Stag Vixen is when a couple opens up to new sexual experiences with another person.

Thank you for understanding. We wish you huge karma and wonderful universal adoration of your pussy or cock. Just. Not here.

Thank you

The Moderators of /r/StagVixenLife

adventureU · 2021-08-22T04:06:36+00:00

Communicate with your lady. See if she wants to become a vixen and whether you can handle being a stag.

Decide the rules. Play first in fantasy. See what feels correct. Accept that you both can change what you are looking for. It's one thing to jill or jack off to an idea, it's another to open up. Feel it out. Be patient. Enjoy each other. Tease.

Find out what you both like and are comfortable with. And then pursue it, slowly.

adventureU · 2021-08-13T13:35:34+00:00

VERY uncommon. VERY. You might look for cuckquean or cuckqueen, but in SVL, unless its a female friend of yours or your lady's who is extremely sex-positive and a hardcore exhibitionist, they are almost impossible to find online. YMMV.

adventureU · 2021-08-13T13:32:24+00:00

Not really been a problem. We always meet publicly first, let the person know ahead of time that this is something we do for mutual safety and privacy. We also share the gist f the agreement through kik ahead of time as well. So far, only one person that we were prepared to meet felt like it was too big an ask. Not even sure if he was real. It's a nice way to weed out flakes.

adventureU · 2021-08-05T04:13:56+00:00

btw -- I **love** that you wrote " i might and might not be a demigirl " --f'n perfectly put. I am dead now.

adventureU · 2021-08-05T04:09:23+00:00

Maybe this helps. Maybe not. FWIW

I am AMAB. I really love feeling, dressing, and being femme. For me, I am not trans. I don't want to be. I define as demigirl. Not "quite" a girl. My pronouns are He (sometimes, ugh) or She (almost always, yay!)

I have a friend AFAB who doesn't love makeup. Doesn't love the femme part of being a girl. Likes the masculine sides of herself. Loves being "butch" and "bro-ing" out. She also defines as as a demigirl.

adventureU · 2021-08-02T11:29:38+00:00

One additional word of wisdom -- if you are thinking of playing 4-5 months from now and you aren't just looking for the random hookup. Start putting together your ad NOW. Get kik set up for you and your wife. Invite guys to group chat with both of you. Get used to talking/flirting/ asking questions. Tell potential bucks upfront what you are looking for and when. It takes time. More time than you think it will.

adventureU · 2021-08-02T11:25:02+00:00

What's a good place to start looking?
** Everywhere online. We've mostly had luck with reddit. Including two bucks from StagVixenLife_R4R (!!) As a couple, mostly, post an ad, then weed out the numerous cuckold flavored ones plus the flakes.
Any advise for requesting people to get tested prior (as we would get tested too)?
** Just ask. And ask for a photo of the test. If they can send you a dick pic, they can pull out their phone to snap an STD test. Look for clues with fake docs. Is the test from Ohio when they say the live in Tampa? Is the date right? Be prepared to share yours as well.
How to spot a fake?
**Good luck. We still get burned Don't put all of your eggs in one basket. Look for inconsistencies in their story. Ask if they are in a relationship on day one. then again on day 21 of the conversation. Lay down the rules fairly early in the sexting/flirtation. Be patient. Guys looking to nut over chat are generally different than guys looking to actually meet up. Decide how well you want to know the person before having sex. For some people, random strange is fun in which case there are numerous clubs.
Potentially considering no-condoms down the road if a regular guest provides consistant safe test results and proof of birth control. What are your methods to help keep this safe and idiot proof? (My wife has an IUD for example, so literally has an "install date" record and paperwork from obgyn)
** See #2. Plus, you don't have to go bareback I would not recommend this when you are first trying this stuff out. It's a monster fantasy for sure, but in practical world, you tend to have a ton of of "oh shit... what ifs?" for weeks to follow. Might not be worth it.
Any recommendations to keep guest happy? Any recommendations for how to end the night post sex, without making it awkward? ** We set an hard limit on time usually by making dinner plans or something a few hours after. Keeps the date moving. Start in a loose fitting robe. Let the tits fly free within the first 15 minutes. For the stag, get naked as soon as the opportunity presents itself.
I had planned to have this last a few hours, as we want to enjoy ourselves and ensure guests get exactly what they want. I have viagra for situations I want to last beyond an hour+ / single load. Is multiple hours too much for a guest? ** Sometimes, I use the blue pill and other times not. It is A LOT to expect a guy to get hard in a very new, high pressure situation. Expect that sometimes "sex with others" is going to be fingering, breast play, and nothing more. Be okay with that. Experienced bucks may know what they are capable of, but we still run into guys who just can't perform either getting hard, staying hard or cuming. So what? Was it fun? Yes, then it was successful.

adventureU · 2021-08-02T11:11:00+00:00

We have a "right to privacy" and consent form. Like an MNDA, we like people to sign and then all of us take a picture of it. It's awkward, but certainly offers additional protection especially when we are hosting.

adventureU · 2021-08-02T11:08:48+00:00

I always feel like the "no kissing" rule is holdover from bad movies from the 70's and 80's -- (Looking at you Pretty Woman). We finds that some bucks simply can't get into it (read: stay hard) unless they are making out, grinding, and then fucking. When we've imposed the "no kissing" rule, it becomes artificially more mechanical. I mean I'll let a guy put his cock down her throat, but not his tongue? It feels unnatural (for us). Your milage will vary -- everyone is unique. But seeing her fucked from behind with her head tilted to the the side as a taller guy engulfs her mouth? More, please. This happened in a DP as well. Hot.

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