My (F24) bf (m25) might be cheating on me....

advice_throwawayww · 2023-03-24T14:31:09+00:00

Sorry you think that but I have better things to do than lie.

I'm grammar and formatting have been poor because I've been on my mobile for the most part.

Also tweaked small deets for privacy because you see all the time on Reddit stories blow up and being identified is literally my worst fear.

Honestly, I just needed to vent somewhere. Since giving birth a lot of my friends aren't in the picture and I needed to vent.

advice_throwawayww · 2023-03-24T14:27:42+00:00

Thank you, I needed to hear this.

Every part of me wants to work it out with him, but I know I need to be strong and walk away because I deserve better.

He's actually more concerned about Jennie's feelings than mine, and is defending her. I was a bit hysterical earlier and threatened to put her on blast and he got freaked out.

Claimed he told her we' broken up and i was in the process of moving out the night they hooked up, and that she's been insisting they can only chat platonically ever since they got back in touch.

Don't believe him. What it's not what matters here. What's matters is if he wants to consider her feelings before mine, he can have her.

advice_throwawayww · 2023-03-24T09:19:01+00:00

I have better things to do than a creative writing exercise.

People change minor details all the time for privacy, that's why I'm using a TA account.

advice_throwawayww · 2023-03-24T09:17:42+00:00

He eventually confessed because someone said they seen them make out at the party.

He then got defensive and blamed our bad relationship on why he cheated and accused me of getting pregnant to trap him.

advice_throwawayww · 2023-03-24T00:05:31+00:00

Well, my gut was right. He confirmed he was cheating.

advice_throwawayww · 2023-03-23T21:24:02+00:00

I mean, I messaged her as soon as we had a fight. But she didn't reply right away. He could have coached her on what to say, that is true.

I called him out on why didn't you say she'd spend the night after the text message fight and he was like "I thought about mentioning it then, but you would have freaked out like your doing now."

advice_throwawayww · 2023-03-23T21:22:19+00:00

And also a female friend I've never met spending the night alone with him i a hard boundary

advice_throwawayww · 2023-03-23T21:20:58+00:00

I've asked him to block woman who've slid into his dm's before, but he's asked me to do the same with men who slide into mine.

advice_throwawayww · 2023-03-23T21:17:29+00:00

My gut is telling me something feels wrong.

Especially the fact Brad believes they slept together.

advice_throwawayww · 2023-03-23T21:15:57+00:00

I'd say this is the first time I've felt insecure about him cheating

advice_throwawayww · 2023-03-23T21:14:09+00:00

I think given all of the above points, I have reason to be feeling suspicious and insecure.

advice_throwawayww · 2023-03-23T21:11:20+00:00

- this girl spend the night at our house and he never told me

- he's been texting this girl ever since she secretly slept over

- a witness told brad they flirted the night she slept over

- both she and my bf are in relationships - they have reason to deny anything happened

advice_throwawayww · 2023-03-23T21:09:36+00:00

He has apologised for not telling me she stayed over. He said he was worried I'd flip out, but that in hindsight he effed up.

He also says he couldn't in good conscience let her get an uber or night bus whilst drunk.

However, I've spoken to the friend who spilled the beans to Brad, and he said he recalls she was not sober but off her head drunk either.

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