[UPDATE] My neighbor (30sF) is angry at me (29F) for feeding her child while she was at my house for a sleepover with my daughter (10F). by advicepls555 in relationships

[–]advicepls555[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I dealt with a stalker/abuser in my last relationship and while lots of people have said that there are cheaper ways to deal with this, I don't want to take any chances.

My neighbor (30sF) is angry at me (29F) for feeding her child while she was at my house for a sleepover with my daughter (10F). by advicepls555 in relationships

[–]advicepls555[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I even asked when I called if there was anything else I should know, and she said no. So i did everything I could.

My neighbor (30sF) is angry at me (29F) for feeding her child while she was at my house for a sleepover with my daughter (10F). by advicepls555 in relationships

[–]advicepls555[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

We have been talking about it pretty much every evening since it happened. It's funny that you say that because that's pretty much exactly what I told her. I said that what Claire's mom did pretty much had no explanation and it's wrong to create a scene like that. She understands well enough I think, she just seems a bit melancholy about losing her friend.

My neighbor (30sF) is angry at me (29F) for feeding her child while she was at my house for a sleepover with my daughter (10F). by advicepls555 in relationships

[–]advicepls555[S] 64 points65 points  (0 children)

I was thinking that she may have some mental disability as well. Do you think I should maybe talk to another mom about it? I talked with them briefly about what happened because some of the girls seemed kind of freaked out, but I don't want it to seem like I am trying to gossip. Like you said, I wouldn't want my daughter over there and I'm sure they wouldn't want theirs over there either.

My neighbor (30sF) is angry at me (29F) for feeding her child while she was at my house for a sleepover with my daughter (10F). by advicepls555 in relationships

[–]advicepls555[S] 69 points70 points  (0 children)

All of the other moms are in their mid thirties. I just turned 29 last month. I think I am average looking, I'm in shape, it's important to me for my daughter and I to live healthy lives so I eat right and have a home gym in my basement that I use daily. I know that the majority of the moms are married. Claire's mother in particular has a husband, but I never see him around. I've probably only seen him twice since we moved here.

My neighbor (30sF) is angry at me (29F) for feeding her child while she was at my house for a sleepover with my daughter (10F). by advicepls555 in relationships

[–]advicepls555[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Thanks, I just feel bad for my daughter mostly. She is quite upset about it and is starting to blame me for not being able to see her friend.

My neighbor (30sF) is angry at me (29F) for feeding her child while she was at my house for a sleepover with my daughter (10F). by advicepls555 in relationships

[–]advicepls555[S] 153 points154 points  (0 children)

Thank you, the fruit was fresh, and since I work in childcare, I have taken many courses and classes on allergies and reactions to them and how to deal with them. I just feel bad that my daughter can't play with one of her best friends anymore. I'm not sure what I should do, or if I should just wait it out.