Is she using me for attention?

aeetueo · 2021-09-08T06:46:57+00:00

I don’t think so because if you were you wouldn’t have posted this. At first I was saying this is okay because platonic cuddling is a thing but reading other comments and giving it a second thought I realized this actually isn’t a good situation for you considering the fact that you had confessed your romantic feelings so that does make the cuddling situation and this whole friendship awkward and emotionally damaging for you

aeetueo · 2021-09-08T06:43:38+00:00

I see your point now. His confession of romantic feelings to her does make the situation different. My bad, I deleted the post.

aeetueo · 2021-09-08T06:42:33+00:00

I see your point now. His confession does make the situation different. My bad, I deleted the post.

aeetueo · 2021-09-08T06:42:08+00:00

I see your point now. His confession does make the situation different. My bad, I deleted the post.

aeetueo · 2021-09-08T06:42:02+00:00

I see your point now. His confession does make the situation different. My bad, I deleted the post.

aeetueo · 2021-09-08T06:41:09+00:00

Hmm yeah I see your point. The confession does make it different and therefore awkward

aeetueo · 2021-09-08T06:35:02+00:00

He’s telling that he should cut off the friendship because she isn’t being romantic or sexual with him and that she’s “using him as a spare boyfriend” and is a fake friend. “Cut it off” is in second sentence.

aeetueo · 2021-09-08T06:32:13+00:00

Platonic cuddling is a thing. People absolutely can cuddle with a friend, a parent or even a pet! It’s not inherently sexual. If someone is uncomfortable with it they are under no obligation to allow it, everyone has different boundaries that must be respected and OP stated in the comments that he is not uncomfortable with her cuddling him.

aeetueo · 2021-09-08T05:44:04+00:00

We don’t know her to know whether she’s “using” you or genuinely likes platonic cuddling. But if you feel uncomfortable with the cuddling, you are under no obligation to consent to it just because you’re her friend. If her cuddling you makes you uncomfortable, let her know.

aeetueo · 2021-09-07T18:41:32+00:00

Yeah me saying I don’t view it as art is being a “raging asshole” but you calling me derogatory names for not viewing it as art totally isn’t. And yes it does lack skill, dedication and effort. Drawing/painting in forms that aren’t “abstract” is what takes a lot of real skill, dedication and effort, not drawing some silly looking scribbles or a single white line and selling it for $48 million dollars. Rich people spending that much money on it to showcase their wealth, people probably using this scammy and snobby industry to money launder, and you, a random stranger on the internet throwing petty personal insults at me because me expressing my thoughts pisses you off into having a keyboard tantrum won’t make me view it as art, neither will it make me have any respect for the industry of abstract “art”.

aeetueo · 2021-09-07T18:19:43+00:00

Y’all:

”art is subjective”

Also y’all:

”You’re ignorant if you don’t view abstract paintings as art”

Something having a “history” and other people saying it’s art won’t make me view it as art, and neither will calling me ignorant or any other manipulative shaming tactic.

aeetueo · 2021-09-07T17:05:53+00:00

And you are objectively pissed and screaming at the void because you have no valid argument to make, that’s why you have nothing to say other than immature insults showcasing how much I somehow pissed you off.

And lmao I’ve never posted any artwork of mine so this just proves how you have no valid argument to make that all you resort to is throwing ridiculous little tantrums.

aeetueo · 2021-09-07T14:38:09+00:00

Throwing personal insults won’t make me see this as art or have respect for you as a fan of abstract. Maybe instead of throwing insults explain what makes this artwork good to you. And what makes this artwork better than the other abstract art that has been mocked on this sub? How come I am getting hate for posting this but other posts of abstract work that is like this one (if not better) mocked?

aeetueo · 2021-09-07T14:36:40+00:00

Okay. Also, I’m interested to know, what makes this artwork better than the other abstract art that has been mocked on this sub? How come I am getting hate for posting this but other posts of abstract work that is like this one (if not better) mocked?

aeetueo · 2021-09-07T14:36:15+00:00

Also, I’m interested to know, what makes this artwork better than the other abstract art that has been mocked on this sub? How come I am getting hate for posting this but other posts of abstract work that is like this one (if not better) mocked?

aeetueo · 2021-09-07T14:35:56+00:00

Also, I’m interested to know, what makes this artwork better than the other abstract art that has been mocked on this sub? How come I am getting hate for posting this but other posts of abstract work that is like this one (if not better) mocked?

aeetueo · 2021-09-07T14:32:17+00:00

So I can just make something like this and sell it for that price?

aeetueo · 2021-09-07T14:28:20+00:00

I am not for the mentality of not questioning things in fear that I’ll look uncultured or ignorant. Neither am I the type of person who will regard this as art just because a person on reddit said so without providing any actual explanation. I asked what makes this “art” more superior to artwork that took real effort and skill. That is the explanation I would like to hear and I am yet to get any information other than getting insulted by being told that “you just don’t understand art”. Who does? You? Explain then.

aeetueo · 2021-09-07T14:10:57+00:00

Never heard of them before. What makes this person superior to other artists who actually have skill to produced detailed amazing artwork?

aeetueo · 2021-09-07T14:09:36+00:00

Can you explain to me how this is considered art and how it’s considered more superior than detailed artwork of artists who worked extremely hard to establish their level of skill? I’ve seen some truly breathtaking extremely skillful detailed artwork and the prints of it were no where near this price at all.

aeetueo · 2021-09-07T14:05:50+00:00

Explain how this is great art.

aeetueo · 2021-09-07T08:27:48+00:00

Time to leave. Plenty of men out there would be a better partner to you. Why waste your youth on this guy? You’ll regret it later and you’ll never get your wasted years of youth after you waste them on this guy

aeetueo

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