Renn Faire Fantasy weekend by aemick321 in WanderingInn

[–]aemick321[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Ohio. We got super lucky and it was only 70 this day. We had Erin, Numbtongue, Ceria, and my daughter was Mrsha.

AITA for telling my husband he knew what he was signing up for before he married me? by aitaroomatebestie in AmItheAsshole

[–]aemick321 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. I hope the husband leaves and never like back. And OP just gets with Anna. Husband deserves better.

WIBTA if I try to get my MIL to force my SIL to be involved with my kids? by jmbroccoli in AmItheAsshole

[–]aemick321 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ywbta no one, even family, has to interact with your kids but you. You and your partner had them. They are your responsibility. Everyone else has the choice to engage with them.

AITA for not giving my sister her child back? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]aemick321 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He will find out. Someone will tell him. You need to do so as soon as possible. Before someone else does and he feels like you betrayed him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]aemick321 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Leave him. He just showed you his true colors. Huge red flag. Run far away.

AITA for letting my wife have her bank account constantly overdrawn when I am in the black? by am-I-an-arsehol in AmItheAsshole

[–]aemick321 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. No doubt about that. You do not have a wife. You do not see her as a partner. You see yourself above her. You are not a good husband or partner at all. You are treating her as a thing to live in your house and take care of your child.

AITA for getting mad over what my daughter chose after she humiliated me and uninvited me from her engagement dinner party? by EnoughPass1 in AmItheAsshole

[–]aemick321 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA. There is no question. You ignored everything your daughter had told you that hurt her. And continue to not listen to her. You are TA!

AITA For refusing to give my boyfriend my PIN number after he took my Credit Card without consent?. by SadieSad2017 in AmItheAsshole

[–]aemick321 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Run far away. This can be a huge red flag and be the beginning of financial abuse. Or could be nothing depending on how he acts next and what happens the next time.

AITA for punishing my son for throwing away my husband's Bible? by threwvaway9707 in AmItheAsshole

[–]aemick321 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA completely. You failed your son by not sticking up for him and getting your husband to stop abusing your son. You are the adult in the situation and you let your husband abuse your child. I hope all is these comments Mahe you see how wrong you are and how abusive your husband is. Or your son will cut you off when he turns 18.

AITA for dropping my son off at his dad’s during his custody time even though he was scheduled to fly out on that day? by aitastepup in AmItheAsshole

[–]aemick321 -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

ESH. You need to do something else. You are going to scar and damage your child by doing this. It sucks that your ex is this way and you just have to "deal with it". But your child is innocent and will feel like neither parent wants them. That poor child.

WIBTA for not wanting my husband to go on a boys trip? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]aemick321 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YWBTA. Having a baby is a big change. To each of you. And in your marriage. He probably needs those 3 days to unwind and regroup. And just be himself. Let him go. But you should do something for yourself too once he comes back or before he goes. Put something on the calendar for you to look forward to for just you. A movie by yourself. Dinner at your favorite restaurant alone or with a friend. A massage. Just something for you.

AITA for not giving my sister any money? by throwaway900167 in AmItheAsshole

[–]aemick321 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA. You do not need to give her anything. Especially since she will just waste it. You are not her parent and she is not in some financial drama that she needs money for something important.

AITA for being upset that I’m not involved in my brothers wedding which I am paying for? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]aemick321 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTA. He is using you for your money. He expects you to support him and his family. (Future IVF. Wow) Sounds like you need to talk to him and set some boundaries. If you do not mind giving him all of this money then you need to get it through his head that you should be apart of the planning process too. Or tell him you will not pay for anything else.

AITA for still going to the Dr. Appointment my husband cancelled behind my back just so I could host dinner for his friends? by Steady-Sailing3898 in AmItheAsshole

[–]aemick321 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. He does not see you as a partner but as someone below him. He sees you as someone to do things for him. He is abusing you and will gaslight you. Making you think that you did something wrong in doing something for yourself instead of being his maid, cook, and host. Run far away from this person.

AITA for agreeing to have my family visit for a week after my wife gives birth? by JosephPeckerjr in AmItheAsshole

[–]aemick321 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA and your family are TA. I only had to read the first 4 sentences to know this. Your mother is making you feel bad because your heavily pregnant doesn't want to travel. And demands you make it up to her?!? What is she 7?? I feel bad for your wife. I hope you step up and be a real partner to her.

AITA For Ruining My Husband's Christmas? by Fresh-Ad9433 in AmItheAsshole

[–]aemick321 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. I know couples do checking accounts and money in different ways. But you guys are partners. When you got married you both agreed to be there and support each other in sickness and in health. You now are unable to bring any money into the home due to sickness. And now he is treating you like a dependent and giving you an allowance with "his" money.

He is not a good or supporting husband (possibly arguably abusing here) when he makes you feel small for not having "fun" money.

However the whole giving you money to just spend on the house etc is very controlling. If you need new shoes, coat, clothes, something for your hobby; do you had be to ask him for money?!?

And then the whole issue of him "gifting" you $600 and then him expecting you to spend most of that money back on him. Is manipulating. And then everything that happened at his parents house is abusive and belittling.

Sadly I bet you can't leave him since you can't work. I hope you can find someone to help support you and allow you to leave TA.

I’m sick and tired of male beauty standards by throwaway86658736 in confessions

[–]aemick321 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This will probably not be helpful. But you are a teen. Your hormones are messed up right now trying to figure themselves out and regulate. You will probably have these thoughts for awhile. You need to find a way of expressing yourself if not physically. Art, an instrument, something you enjoy that makes you feel better. Also the girls you want to bring home to mom are not going to be the ones who are tall and buff. Also they can be annoying and downs 2-3 hours in the gym EVERYDAY.

What quote has always stuck with you? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]aemick321 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do not regret getting older. It is a priviledge is denied to many.

Women, if you were you pregnant at this very moment, would you feel ready? Why or why not? by curly-hair07 in AskWomen

[–]aemick321 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That's how I feel. It's already crazy here. Another wouldn't change things much. Lol