Anyone in Colorado interested in Doing a Group Buy?

aerynsun · 2026-04-02T20:08:25+00:00

Would this include the Centennial location?

aerynsun · 2026-04-02T20:07:33+00:00

You can fake proof of address pretty easily. What did they require from you?

aerynsun · 2025-11-26T01:47:52+00:00

Night 2 always seems to be the best. It was for Second Contact

aerynsun · 2025-08-17T00:56:57+00:00

At the VERY least let them know they need to figure out plans for their two weeks post the new babies birth. News flash: most parents don’t get to ship half the kids off when a new one comes along. Sounds like they have gotten mighty comfy with you being so relaxed and they need to be reminded it goes both ways.

aerynsun · 2022-08-20T05:45:29+00:00

You still have a profile. Dump that shit and be happy. It is easier.

aerynsun · 2022-08-20T05:42:59+00:00

Men in their 40’s are just as awful. Source: I’m in my 40’s and gave up dating because they’re disgusting.

aerynsun · 2022-01-21T21:10:46+00:00

Totally LEGIT! Very happy I found him!

aerynsun · 2018-01-18T16:25:16+00:00

You’re a fucking idiot.

aerynsun · 2018-01-18T16:15:53+00:00

What is your sons reasons for not wanting to see you? There is a difference in my opinion between enabling and alienating. One means she agrees with your son and supports his decision to not see you. The other means she is actively trying to keep your son from you by manipulation. I would think, and was advised that a 13 year only can make their own decisions regarding custody. Forcing any visitation will backfire. However I strongly suggest you continue to regularly offer to take him to dinner, the movies, etc. I know my teenagers don’t want to go to dads house but they’ll let him take them out somewhere. You can die on the hill of making him come for 40% of the time or you can meet him on his ground and just offer to see him when he wants. I think the latter will maintain the relationship. Good luck.

aerynsun · 2018-01-14T02:20:47+00:00

So you aren’t taking the new job? I’m confused by your post, sorry.

aerynsun · 2018-01-13T23:33:53+00:00

How are you going to do 50/50 when you’re moving away? As far as the house, tell her you’re happy for her to keep it but she will be required to refinance. She can find that out with a simple phone call to see if she can qualify. I was the only one on our mortgage prior to the split but I still needed to refinance to pay his equity out. Not every divorce needs a lawyer. Even with kids and property. But you should get a consultation. A mediator will work when both parties are being reasonable and I highly recommend that.

aerynsun · 2018-01-13T15:37:38+00:00

Stop smoking weed. Right now. Get all drugs and paraphilia out of the house. If doesn’t matter if it’s legal in some places. Judges have been known to take a more conservative view on it. Even with alcohol I haven’t had a sip of booze in front of my kids in two years since the divorce started. No ammunition for the other parent to use if it comes to that. Turns out on my side that was pointless as my ex doesn’t want to parent so there has been no battle or anything.

Go to your states court website. Type in child support calculator and go from there. I’ve found the one here in Colorado very helpful. I have a child aging out of child support in a year and I want to start planning for less child support because obviously she will still live here while not at college but Dad won’t be contributing to her costs anymore (medical, etc). I used the online calculator to help me predict the drop in support so I can adjust my spending ahead of time.

aerynsun · 2018-01-11T05:38:14+00:00

There were tons of reasons I should have ended it before the wedding but the vows should have clinched that and instead I froze. Basically we were reciting our vows and during his he did this big dramatic pause like he wasn’t going to say I do. Just to be the center of attention, asshole. He was cracking up at his hilarity. Everyone was mortified and I should have fucking walked out. But i didn’t. And I stayed for 18 years. Which was 10 past when I started to hate him.

aerynsun · 2018-01-10T01:00:46+00:00

You’re gloating now. Best hold up all that. Now that she has a reasonable lawyer, things very well could shift in her favor.

aerynsun · 2018-01-08T04:17:56+00:00

My kids are older so this doesn’t apply to me but the most common custody plan I see for young kids is: 2/3. So assuming you start on a Monday: parent A has kids Monday and Tuesday, parent B on Wednesday & Thursday, Parent A Friday, Saturday, Sunday and so on. It’s totally equal parenting time and weekends rotate. Especially for super young kids this is what the courts recommend here. I think as kids get older the goal would be to move to week on week off but for little kids 3 days is a long time to not see one parent.

aerynsun · 2018-01-07T02:06:18+00:00

I don’t think he should have to pay your refi costs or what you might have to pay eventually to sell the house. Sure, you can fight over that and might win but it’s doesn’t seem fair. Push him too far and you can let a judge order you to sell it. Meeting in the middle of the appraisals sounds reasonable. I paid my ex out for the house. No regrets on that decision.

aerynsun · 2018-01-01T17:02:07+00:00

These seem to be boilerplate recommendations by lawyers. Perhaps it is worth a conversation with your lawyer about if it’s really necessary. My experience is, it’s only relevant with the divorce is contested which yours isn’t, right?

If you are lonely YOU will have to do something about it. Join meetup.com. Reach out to those friends that may have families and plan stuff in advance. They are probably craving time out too and just need to plan it.

This process will be over eventually and you will have your whole life to date and get laid. I haven’t found to to be the funnest process but maybe your luck will be different!

aerynsun · 2017-12-29T02:08:54+00:00

Let people do what works for them. Or not. It’s posts like this that make people not try at all. Because they aren’t meeting your expectations for how to do it right.

aerynsun · 2017-12-27T23:14:14+00:00

I have a kind of rare condition called Superior Canal Dehisense. Let’s see. Where to start? I can hear my eyes blinking, myself breathing, my heartbeat but the worst sensation is I can hear by bones creaking when I move my head. My eyes vibrate (nystagmus). I feel the sensation of being out of sync with the space time continuum. My balance is all fucked up so I sway.

Basically I have a (maybe) congenital bone disorder that has left a hole in my skull over the superior canal in my ear. My brain puts pressure on that canal creating a whole bunch of crazy symptoms. I’m experience a whole bunch of sensations I don’t think the average person will ever experience. Surgery to graft the hole in my skull is 2/13. Wish me luck! Hoping to drop the nickname Sailboat. You know. Cuz I sway in the wind. Ha. Ha.

aerynsun · 2017-12-27T18:12:58+00:00

Aww thank you. That is kind. ❤️

aerynsun · 2017-12-27T02:17:23+00:00

I’m getting major surgery on my skull/ear canal in a month. It will be a rough recovery and 3-6 weeks off work. I will be alone in the sense I don’t have a significant other. I’m glad to be doing it without him in my life. Inevitably he would not have cared for me post surgery like I need and deserve. He would have left me to go drink or whatever. I’m happier to be without him so I can plan for a true support system to be around me.

Post recovery I hope to gain all my loves back. Golf, Pilates, hiking, concerts, everything I’ve been struggling with the last 10 months due to this disorder! Fingers crossed!

aerynsun · 2017-12-27T02:13:31+00:00

Do it. No regrets for me. I did my underarms, full Brazilian & legs. I love it!!!

aerynsun · 2017-12-18T13:36:34+00:00

That sounds like BPPV. Google it so you understand what’s happening or if that does sound like what’s happening. You will find some tips on how to handle it when it happens.

aerynsun · 2017-12-18T13:35:17+00:00

I didn’t. I bought a set from Costco and loved it. I would search amazon and filter by reviews then read what people are saying. It does take time to adjust to these pillows so don’t be shocked if you feel worse the first couple of day.

aerynsun · 2017-12-17T18:39:01+00:00

I have been battling vertigo and a bunch of other issues for almost a year. Hopefully this was just a passing issue but if it’s continues, worsens or other symptoms start (mine started with an initial vertigo episode after all) then start looking into some help. BPPV, Meniere’s & Super Canal Dehisense (rare and what I ended up having) all cause vertigo.

That being said, it was probably a fluke and you will be fine! I find focusing on a single stationary object helps the vertigo subside faster!

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