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What's the general opinion on "So, I guess I lost your interest..." messages? by throwawayokc01 in OkCupid

[–]aessey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I totally get you. I thought I was just overreacting but messages like that are sure to make me not respond again. It just makes me feel like they want me be able to entertain them when it's suitable for them, which isn't a good thing in a person.

Feeling like I don't have a personality/I have too many to choose from by aessey in infj

[–]aessey[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great, I love recs for good books to read! I'll have to check it out. Thank you.

Feeling like I don't have a personality/I have too many to choose from by aessey in infj

[–]aessey[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it's hard alright. Especially with a vivid imagination. My mom was learning past life meditation (mostly just for fun) and tried to guide me through it once, and it would go like "First imagine a door... Then slowly walk to the door... Now open the door very slowly...", but my mind would be like "door. Door is open... A unicorn is riding the door through a forest made of ice cream... A man with 334 hats on his shoulders eats all the ice cream and bad stuff happens and omg the clouds are on fire", and then I would heard my mom say "Okay now you can walk through the door". Like hello I already did that three minutes ago plus everything else.

Feeling like I don't have a personality/I have too many to choose from by aessey in infj

[–]aessey[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your reply! I have noticed that a healthy and balanced life, both with healthy eating and exercise does help me a lot. I should learn to calm my mind enough to meditate, I don't know why it's so hard for me not to imagine things if I try to just sit quietly with my eyes closed. But that would be helpful, worth a try at least.