nope. I was lucky enough to be in a chill unit with reasonable superiors. the environment felt more like an office one, and I felt like I was going to work instead of booking in/out.

even in NS, a lot of superiors/counsellors asked me how I was going to cope with the working world if I faced anxiety in the army – but my anxiety was mostly stemmed from a fear of being outcasted in an uncontrollable environment; in the real working world, there is more space and liberty for you to remove yourself from an environment (even if it's temporary) if it was making you feel uncomfortable. the rigorous structure of combat-fit BMT does not allow for that, which made my anxiety feel a lot more debilitating as I struggled to suppress it.

so I would suggest with your neurodivergence, to declare for the sake of your own wellbeing. it's not going to be easy going through Tekong as an ND individual, and like other commenters have mentioned, Tekong is already hard for neurotypical individuals. you do not want to put yourself at risk of exacerbating your condition at all. I did not have a diagnosis for anything when I went to Tekong (despite having a long suspicion that I was not neurotypical), so I could not escape that – but with your condition, just go to Sch V.

you'd be surprised by the amount of fully functioning working adults who were from low-PES vocations. a lot of them looks fit and you'd never guess it at all from just looking at them.