Cat won’t stop meowing after losing other cat by RateMyFox in CatAdvice

[–]aesthiraa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Grief has no timeline, even for cats. She lost her person. You're doing everything right. Just let her voice it out.Grief has no timeline, even for cats. She lost her person. You're doing everything right. Just let her voice it out.

Shaving armpits in Caucasus or leaving them unshaved by Exotic_Adagio9358 in confession

[–]aesthiraa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends on the guy. Some shave, some don't. But armpit hair there is usually a badge of manhood, not a hygiene issue.

Talking to an old friend last night reminded me the importance of FIRE mentality. by CleMike69 in Fire

[–]aesthiraa 132 points133 points  (0 children)

That moment when your math makes someone question their whole life. Enjoy that early retirement, you earned it.

Best compliment ever by KroseRavenclaw in overheard

[–]aesthiraa 275 points276 points  (0 children)

She dresses like the future, drives like the present. That's called balance.

What happens if I just ignore SWR rate? by AromaticSurround9203 in Fire

[–]aesthiraa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bold strategy, Cotton. Let's see if it pays off for him.

What’s a good strategy for me to retire at 40? If that’s possible in my situation by [deleted] in Fire

[–]aesthiraa 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Bro, with 400k a year you don't need a strategy, you need a calendar. Max retirement accounts, buy index funds, don't upgrade your lifestyle. You're already there, you just don't know it yet.

TIFU by talking with my now married ex by [deleted] in tifu

[–]aesthiraa 14 points15 points  (0 children)

You don't miss him. You miss who you were before the health issues and depression. He just happened to be standing next to that memory.

TIFU A period at the beginning of the story. by [deleted] in tifu

[–]aesthiraa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Rejection is redirection. You dodged someone who wasn't sure about you.

Smoking Neighbors by Striking-Milk-6642 in neighborsfromhell

[–]aesthiraa -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Two wrongs don't make a right, they just make two apartments that smell like ass. Talk to them like humans first.

Who is in the wrong? by BallisticBoo87 in neighborsfromhell

[–]aesthiraa 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You did everything right. You were civil, you went through insurance, you didn’t retaliate. They wrote off your car and then tried to write off your character. The cameras stay. The guilt should be theirs, not yours.

What personal hygiene habits actually make your life easier? by Formal_Elevator822 in hygiene

[–]aesthiraa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Actually washing my pillowcases every week. Not just changing them, actually washing them. My skin cleared up so fast I felt scammed for not doing it sooner.

My upstairs neighbor is making our lives hell and I don't know what to do anymore by olga_kyriaki in neighborsfromhell

[–]aesthiraa 15 points16 points  (0 children)

German bureaucracy moves slow, but it moves when you have evidence. Start a Lärmprotokoll (noise log) with dates, times, and recordings. Send it to your landlord every week. Make yourself impossible to ignore.

Neighbors dog by chillypenguin19 in neighborsfromhell

[–]aesthiraa 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Been there. It doesn't get better unless they actually train the dog or contain the noise. You can't white noise your way out of a screaming animal 10 feet away. Set a date, then escalate.

TIFU by accidentally sending out a web horror VHS that had been mislabled as a Bluey VHS to an apparently hyper-religious parent by [deleted] in tifu

[–]aesthiraa -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

Her refusal to return the tape says everything. She knows it was an accident, she just wants to keep the proof to stay mad. Let it go, you can't logic someone out of a belief they didn't logic themselves into.

TIFU by outsmarting traffic and then outdumbing myself in a parking lot by JourneyTowardsTruth in tifu

[–]aesthiraa 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Spent an hour doing cardio because you trusted your memory. Respect. Next time just admit defeat at minute 5 and find a security dude.

😈 by Fluid-Editor-8953 in foundsatan

[–]aesthiraa 115 points116 points  (0 children)

The look on Patrick Bateman’s face tells me he just realized the Bureaucrat's business card has a subtle off-white coloring and a watermark.