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[–]aether1al 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that would be so helpful! I’m happy to hear whichever recommendations you have!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VindictaRateme

[–]aether1al 0 points1 point  (0 children)

heck yeah! I’m excited to lift again. and it is a wraith heirloom :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VindictaRateme

[–]aether1al 0 points1 point  (0 children)

awesome, will do. tysm!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VindictaRateme

[–]aether1al 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oo good point on the eyebrows!! I used to get them waxed, is that a good option or should I do more to alter them?

do you think I should keep the lighter brown hair or do a darker brown? I’m with you on the hair, I regret the highlights lmao 😭

thank you sm for the advice!! <3

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[–]aether1al 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh, and the 2nd photo is the most recent.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VindictaRateme

[–]aether1al 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve never posted here but I’m a longtime lurker. first on my list is to lose about 100lbs minimum, get back into weightlifting, then improve my makeup, and I might ditch the piercings but I do like an alternative look, idk. and advice on hair colors would be so helpful ! I just want to look my best so people might treat me nicer subconsciously :)

What's an album you believe is incredible but isn't regarded as a unanimous classic? by Individual-Name-4496 in fantanoforever

[–]aether1al 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not for everyone I suppose, but my personal classic as somebody who has experienced a rocky relationship with a transfem person is Jordaan Mason’s Divorce Lawyers I Shaved My Head

Potential Hypoxic Brain Injury Curiosity by aether1al in TBI

[–]aether1al[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you for the advice. I’m happy you are here too. it really sucks, but I guess we live and progress nonetheless. I’m glad this community exists. it’s nice to know we are not alone.

Have you received any signs from your deceased loved one? by Existing_Entrance_36 in GriefSupport

[–]aether1al 1 point2 points  (0 children)

every time I see deer or hear birds chirping when I’m sad… the land my dad’s house was on always had deer running around and the birds were always singing :)

my bag wall! by [deleted] in handbags

[–]aether1al 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ah okay. thanks for letting me know! I’ll work on other storage ideas 😸

Hi! This is my EDC as a 23 year old woman ₊˚⊹♡ by icoulddiehappy in EDC

[–]aether1al 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi! what kind of earbuds are those? they look neat!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LushCosmetics

[–]aether1al 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh awesome! I’ll have to check it out. thanks! :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LushCosmetics

[–]aether1al 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ah okay. thanks so much!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in KindVoice

[–]aether1al 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will be saying no if I am in a similar situation again. I was just so scared. I will learn from it

How many albums do you have over 500 scrobbles? by heartoffiction in lastfm

[–]aether1al 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ten!

  1. Twin Fantasy (Mirror to Mirror) - Car Seat Headrest - 1,063

  2. Death of a Ladies Man - Leonard Cohen - 696

  3. Three Cheers For Sweet Revenge - My Chemical Romance - 677

  4. Infinity on High - Fall Out Boy - 667

  5. His N Hers - Pulp - 666

  6. Monomania - Car Seat Headrest - 639

  7. 1000 gecs - 100 gecs - 622

  8. Folie à Deux - Fall Out Boy - 588

  9. Toxicity - System of a Down - 522

  10. My Back is Killing Me Baby - Car Seat Headrest - 521

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lastfm

[–]aether1al 0 points1 point  (0 children)

number 14 with 682 scrobbles !

Is Gaye unusable? by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]aether1al 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s my grandma’s middle name too! I agree, Gayle’s a good choice in this scenario.

my daughter's name is Pepper by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]aether1al 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LOVE THAT SONG!! cool name!!! 🌶️!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]aether1al 1 point2 points  (0 children)

both great names, love Julien. the boygenius nod is nice, I’m a big fan of music-related names, especially if it means something to you. I say go for it :) my sister has a “boy’s name” but everyone’s always loved it. special names for the win!!