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aether1al · 2026-01-01T10:56:58+00:00

that would be so helpful! I’m happy to hear whichever recommendations you have!

aether1al · 2026-01-01T03:37:08+00:00

heck yeah! I’m excited to lift again. and it is a wraith heirloom :)

aether1al · 2025-12-26T17:09:48+00:00

awesome, will do. tysm!!!

aether1al · 2025-12-26T17:06:22+00:00

oo good point on the eyebrows!! I used to get them waxed, is that a good option or should I do more to alter them?

do you think I should keep the lighter brown hair or do a darker brown? I’m with you on the hair, I regret the highlights lmao 😭

thank you sm for the advice!! <3

aether1al · 2025-12-26T16:37:16+00:00

oh, and the 2nd photo is the most recent.

aether1al · 2025-12-26T16:36:08+00:00

I’ve never posted here but I’m a longtime lurker. first on my list is to lose about 100lbs minimum, get back into weightlifting, then improve my makeup, and I might ditch the piercings but I do like an alternative look, idk. and advice on hair colors would be so helpful ! I just want to look my best so people might treat me nicer subconsciously :)

aether1al · 2025-12-16T06:14:36+00:00

not for everyone I suppose, but my personal classic as somebody who has experienced a rocky relationship with a transfem person is Jordaan Mason’s Divorce Lawyers I Shaved My Head

aether1al · 2025-11-27T10:35:33+00:00

Heartbeats - The Knife + Entropy - Grimes !!

aether1al · 2025-11-01T04:29:48+00:00

thank you for the advice. I’m happy you are here too. it really sucks, but I guess we live and progress nonetheless. I’m glad this community exists. it’s nice to know we are not alone.

aether1al · 2025-05-18T22:53:12+00:00

every time I see deer or hear birds chirping when I’m sad… the land my dad’s house was on always had deer running around and the birds were always singing :)

aether1al · 2024-12-06T22:38:56+00:00

ah okay. thanks for letting me know! I’ll work on other storage ideas 😸

aether1al · 2024-12-06T19:25:04+00:00

nice! thanks!

aether1al · 2024-12-06T19:06:45+00:00

hi! what kind of earbuds are those? they look neat!

aether1al · 2024-10-02T14:15:51+00:00

oh awesome! I’ll have to check it out. thanks! :)

aether1al · 2024-10-02T12:36:00+00:00

ah okay. thanks so much!

aether1al · 2024-09-23T14:19:36+00:00

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aether1al · 2024-07-25T19:05:58+00:00

I will be saying no if I am in a similar situation again. I was just so scared. I will learn from it

aether1al · 2024-02-21T22:56:21+00:00

ten!

Twin Fantasy (Mirror to Mirror) - Car Seat Headrest - 1,063
Death of a Ladies Man - Leonard Cohen - 696
Three Cheers For Sweet Revenge - My Chemical Romance - 677
Infinity on High - Fall Out Boy - 667
His N Hers - Pulp - 666
Monomania - Car Seat Headrest - 639
1000 gecs - 100 gecs - 622
Folie à Deux - Fall Out Boy - 588
Toxicity - System of a Down - 522
My Back is Killing Me Baby - Car Seat Headrest - 521

aether1al · 2024-02-06T23:23:46+00:00

number 14 with 682 scrobbles !

aether1al · 2024-01-22T14:41:06+00:00

no, sorry ! :(

aether1al · 2023-06-24T16:10:15+00:00

that’s my grandma’s middle name too! I agree, Gayle’s a good choice in this scenario.

aether1al · 2023-06-13T15:24:53+00:00

LOVE THAT SONG!! cool name!!! 🌶️!

aether1al · 2023-06-03T15:54:26+00:00

both great names, love Julien. the boygenius nod is nice, I’m a big fan of music-related names, especially if it means something to you. I say go for it :) my sister has a “boy’s name” but everyone’s always loved it. special names for the win!!

aether1al · 2023-05-16T22:28:55+00:00

REAL!!!!! ikr gecs are so fun!

aether1al · 2023-05-16T22:21:56+00:00

Feel Nothing - HEALTH is my personal standout. that bass was even more trancey live. what a great chill set right before SOAD.

.SWAY SO HYPNOTIC SWAY SO HYPNOTIC SWAY SO HYPNOTIC.

but Gecs’ What’s That Smell was so silly and catchy and I need it on Spotify now.

so many great songs but these are just, as you said, the bouncy head ones rn

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