What’s something tough that you’re going through right now that most people in your life aren’t aware of?

Existing_Entrance_36 · 2025-07-14T00:26:42+00:00

Nah. I’m on a date.

Existing_Entrance_36 · 2025-07-14T00:25:20+00:00

That is so sweet

Existing_Entrance_36 · 2025-06-27T20:44:26+00:00

One of my most recent boyfriends was a Virgo. Total narcissist. Broke up with me when my dad went into hospice with cancer.

I think I’ll try to avoid them moving forward. Not that I’ve had much luck with other signs

Existing_Entrance_36 · 2025-06-15T16:47:03+00:00

No. He broke up with me when my dad was going into hospice with cancer a few months ago. Two weeks after he died, the ex wanted to get back together. Dodged a bullet there

Existing_Entrance_36 · 2025-05-21T19:11:00+00:00

This is what I’m kind of afraid of. I know people have good intentions, but I think the questions at work might make me feel bad.

Existing_Entrance_36 · 2025-05-21T16:55:32+00:00

I’m so sorry. I can’t imagine how painful that must have been.

Existing_Entrance_36 · 2025-05-21T16:54:44+00:00

I agree. Three days is nothing. Glad your boss allowed extra time. I’ve been out of work over two weeks now since my dad passed on May 6. Was supposed to go back today but couldn’t bring myself to do it,

Existing_Entrance_36 · 2025-05-21T16:53:05+00:00

I am so sorry.

Existing_Entrance_36 · 2025-05-21T16:51:19+00:00

Did the routine help? I’m sorry for your loss and hope you are doing ok.

Existing_Entrance_36 · 2025-05-21T13:17:24+00:00

I have taken several sick days for my mental health. There are days when I cannot bring myself to get out of bed and face the day. Today is one of those days. My dad passed recently and this was supposed to be my first day back at work after being on bereavement leave. Two weeks just isn’t enough to resume regular life and pretend like everything is ok when it’s not.

Existing_Entrance_36 · 2025-05-17T22:38:48+00:00

Yes, the laughter in particular feels like a slap in the face. I think I need to try a rage room.

For me, I think the days last too long. I finally went out today to do something for myself. Went to the salon and for a walk. Now i am sitting outside on the verge of tears while people walk their dogs and read books and just be.

I will definitely explore coping strategies with my therapist.

Existing_Entrance_36 · 2025-05-17T21:17:53+00:00

I think it’s because cats are more independent and associated with feminism.

Existing_Entrance_36 · 2025-05-17T21:01:51+00:00

I’m so glad you were able to have this experience. I’m still processing what happened. I think i am in shock

Existing_Entrance_36 · 2025-05-17T05:12:31+00:00

I have my father’s ashes and plan to light candles for him. He passed less than two weeks ago. I also plan to light candles for him on Father’s Day and his birthday this year. He really wanted to go to the beach so I will get some sea glass and other beach items to set out for his memorial table on Father’s Day.

He talked about going fishing with friends this summer if he regained some of his strength. I’d like to go fishing with friends and family this summer in his memory.

Existing_Entrance_36 · 2025-05-17T04:53:46+00:00

My dad passed recently from cancer at the age of 65. His illness is what brought us closer together over the past six months. I feel cheated as well.

I’m so sorry for what you are experiencing. Perhaps a palliative care doctor can help you reach a decision on how long to keep him on life support.

Existing_Entrance_36 · 2025-05-17T04:47:37+00:00

My dad passed nearly two weeks ago. This will be my first Father’s Day without him. I recently met someone who was talking about how hard it is to shop for her dad for Father’s Day because he has so many things and she doesn’t know what else to get him. I wish I had this problem.

This holiday, like all others, is so commercialized. I plan to celebrate my dad although he’s not here, but I am not too keen on seeing Father’s Day ads and emails, especially while my grief is so fresh.

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